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Why does my dd5 keep touching and bothering toddler



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amother
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Post Wed, Jul 12 2023, 10:13 am
Trying to understand her behavior so I can hopefully figure out a way to help them both. She literally bothers her younger siblings all day. Touching, pushing, knocking over, hugging, anything and everything to bother them. What could she be seeking that I can give her so her siblings don’t have to suffer?
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amother
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Post Wed, Jul 12 2023, 10:28 am
Negative attention is better than no attention
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amother
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Post Wed, Jul 12 2023, 10:34 am
Is she the oldest? She might feel they are stealing all the attention. Or she wants to be helpful but doesn’t know how. I would use her to help, ask her to bring the diaper, ask her to help them open a snack, to help dress them, to help them play etc.. tell her she’s your big helper and involve her in their lives in a positive way.
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amother
Ecru


 

Post Wed, Jul 12 2023, 1:29 pm
My 6 year old ds does this as well.
It drives me crazy.
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amother
Poppy


 

Post Wed, Jul 12 2023, 1:29 pm
Is she sensory seeking in general?
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amother
Sand


 

Post Fri, Aug 04 2023, 2:21 pm
I have this with my 4 yr old. I researched sensory processing disorder and started giving him big tight hugs every time. There are other grounding activities to do as well. This has been helping greatly so far.
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