|
|
|
|
|
Forum
-> Yom Tov / Holidays
-> Rosh Hashana-Yom Kippur
amother
OP
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 8:27 pm
Mabe its because as a kid id get yelled at if I so much as turned the page too late. But im so happy im not going to shul.
| |
|
Back to top |
13
2
|
amother
Tomato
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 8:28 pm
I like the davening, or at least parts of it.
I like it better on Yom Kippur because of the Avodah.
I don't like how much my feet hurt from all the standing.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
3
|
amother
Begonia
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 8:43 pm
Not at all on rh yk. I feel I give much more heart to my tefilos in private at home. In shul I have adhd.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
5
|
amother
Bisque
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 8:44 pm
I used to love going to shul, but now that I don’t go regularly, I find it hard to stay so long. And that makes me sad 😞 (BH for good reasons though)
| |
|
Back to top |
0
3
|
amother
Skyblue
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 8:44 pm
I love going to shul. My soul comes alive. So distressed about not going.
| |
|
Back to top |
1
4
|
amother
Silver
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 8:46 pm
Yes I do. I feel the davening much more. At home I mumble the words and I’m distracted
I switch off tefillos with a friend so I can make it for some of davening at least
| |
|
Back to top |
0
5
|
amother
Cornsilk
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 8:47 pm
Nope. haven been to shul in about 8 years.
Nothing to do with little kids. Mine are all groen up.
I havent davened in a siddur in that long. And I would feel strange going to shul when I dont feel any connrction to god.
| |
|
Back to top |
19
1
|
mommy3b2c
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 8:48 pm
I strongly dislike davening in Shul.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
8
|
amother
Ultramarine
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 9:20 pm
|
Back to top |
0
6
|
Gt
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 9:41 pm
I love Davening in shul! It was hard for me not to go for so many years with small kids at home BH. For good reasons , but still it was something I had to work through. I am so happy to be able to daven in shul now.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
2
|
silverlining3
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 9:57 pm
Nope. I like my space. At home
| |
|
Back to top |
0
6
|
amother
Oxfordblue
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 10:11 pm
Not unless I really like the chazzan, and even then not really. I haven't heard a chazzan I really liked in years.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
1
|
grace413
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 10:48 pm
Love davening in shul.
Can't focus at home.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
4
|
salt
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 10:58 pm
I love it.
But didn't go all the years that I had was home with little kids.
I went as a child, teenager, and married before I had kids, and I go now - most shabbatot and yom tov.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
3
|
ima_bima
|
Wed, Sep 13 2023, 11:01 pm
I didn't know how much I loved davening in shul til I had half a dozen kids and tried davening with them at home....
| |
|
Back to top |
0
8
|
mha3484
|
Thu, Sep 14 2023, 10:15 am
I love shul and love the paid babysitting. I have ADHD and I think there is something about being in the same room with everyone doing the same thing because when I try to daven at home I end up sitting on the couch staring into space. At shul I can focus a billion times easier.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
6
|
amother
Lilac
|
Thu, Sep 14 2023, 10:21 am
Love talking to God. Hate going to shul, hate opening a siddur. I have so much religious trauma around being forced to daven and go to shul that 40 years later I still have very strong negative feelings about it.
| |
|
Back to top |
10
3
|
Goody2shoes
|
Thu, Sep 14 2023, 10:27 am
I love shul, there's something about davening with a tzibbur and listening to my shul's 500 or so men singing the nusach together, It's really B'rov am hadras melech.
I find it a lot harder to concentrate at home, I loose my kavana a lot faster
| |
|
Back to top |
0
7
|
613mitzvahgirl
|
Thu, Sep 14 2023, 10:37 am
I have some of my kids that do go to shul and some that don’t. I’m needed at home and it’s not possible for me to. I love hearing people daven and being around it. It literally makes my Neshomah soar. I daven at home with my kids that are home meaning I just show them what to daven. The only thing I dislike about it, no matter how many times I go I get so lost. I can never keep up with the davening. I daven in English and can’t really read the Hebrew and it’s very hard pronounce for me. And I feel more connected to HaShem in English. I know we are Yiddishe mommies- but this is me.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
3
|
Related Topics |
Replies |
Last Post |
|
|
Atlanta place to stay walking distance to shul
|
2 |
Mon, Jun 10 2024, 4:10 pm |
|
|
Hachnasas sefer Torah landaus shul flatbush
|
0 |
Fri, May 24 2024, 2:18 pm |
|
|
Introducing a girl to shul -- any tips?
|
16 |
Mon, May 20 2024, 2:23 am |
|
|
Shiur on how to daven in shul (for girls/women)?
|
5 |
Sun, May 19 2024, 6:35 pm |
|
|
My 14 yr old came from shul smelling of cigarettes
|
11 |
Mon, May 06 2024, 7:06 am |
|
|
Imamother may earn commission when you use our links to make a purchase.
© 2024 Imamother.com - All rights reserved
| |
|
|
|
|
|