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Which kid should I take?
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DD10 |
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53% |
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DS7 |
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29% |
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DD5 |
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16% |
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DD3 |
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0% |
[ 1 ] |
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amother
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Thu, Feb 15 2024, 5:36 pm
SuperWify wrote: | DS7 because no one else can handle him and because he needs you the most. It’s not fair to send him to a friend if you DH himself can’t watch him. |
But it sounds like the travel and wedding won’t be a good for him either. Can you hire help for him while you’re away if dh can’t handle him?
I vote for dd10.
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amother
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Thu, Feb 15 2024, 5:59 pm
amother OP wrote: | DH's vote is DD3 because she's the hardest for him. He doesn't agree to let anyone else watch his kids for a week.
That warmed my heart but I still don't want to take her by myself. I wonder if I should pay the 1200 (assuming prices don't go up by Sunday when I'm likely booking) and take 2 kids so I have an extra pair of hands for DD3. But can I really afford the 1200 plus a week of missed work (and dh missing work) is another question
But he did say she got to go last year so it isn't fair lol.
And before you ask why I didn't speak to my husband last week... he wasn't really up to discussing it so I used the time to form my own opinion. |
If dd10 is home is she a help with the younger girls?
Can you send them to friends after school and they come home to sleep?
Less unsettling and easier for your husband..
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amother
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Fri, Feb 16 2024, 1:39 am
amother Carnation wrote: | If dd10 is home is she a help with the younger girls?
Can you send them to friends after school and they come home to sleep?
Less unsettling and easier for your husband.. |
Yes, provided dd10 is medicated, she's a big help.
I just hope dh doesn't forget to medicate her or there will be trouble.
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