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Do I have to light 8 candles there?



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amother


 

Post Mon, Jul 11 2011, 4:39 pm
When you go away for shabbos do you light the same # of candles as usual? if I light 8 candles usually do I need to also light 8 at our host or can I just light two?
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intrigued




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Jul 11 2011, 4:44 pm
I see many people do just 2.
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mummy-bh




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Jul 11 2011, 4:55 pm
I learned that one does not decrease in kedusha, only increase.
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shanie5




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Jul 11 2011, 5:07 pm
most people light only 2 when away. thats most, not all.
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freidasima




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Jul 11 2011, 5:21 pm
I was also taught you light two away from home. Only what is din, not additions.
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Chana Miriam S




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Jul 11 2011, 7:28 pm
I studied the halachas of this and it was two away from home (not that you can't light more but it is not considered a lessening of kedusha) and I bring my own candles because technically they are supposed to be your own (although of course, someone can give it to you and it is yours anyways)
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LiLIsraeli




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Jul 11 2011, 7:44 pm
We actually asked a noted posek about this issue. He said to follow whatever my mother does. She lights two when away from home, so that is what I do.
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chocolate moose




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Jul 11 2011, 8:04 pm
Bidieved 2 is enough. If you can light your usual amount, you should, though.
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amother
Wheat


 

Post Mon, Jul 11 2011, 8:52 pm
My mother asked her Rav and was told to light 2 candles when she goes away, except to her parents or inlaws. In their houses she lights her regular amount.

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lovely1




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Jul 11 2011, 9:01 pm
I only light two when I'm away, even by my parents and in-laws.
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