DH need another bris-help time sensitive

amother

Forestgreen

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 5:21 pm

We going through IF & during certain testings a nurse noticed that where my dh had his bris done, grew back!
Needs to be redone asap! As we're told by mohel . Am so nervous and scared did a/o have any experience with this.
( we won't be able to be intamate till healed....)

flmommy

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 5:24 pm

Wow never heard of this. No advise but sympathy and hugs.

amother

Forestgreen

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 5:27 pm

It's not very common
And tues nite mikva.....!

thunderstorm

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 5:39 pm

Call your Rav for him to advise you.

amother

Forestgreen

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 5:45 pm

This was a halachic desicion involving a few ppl including a dayan & needs to be done asap- tom day.......

simba

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 5:49 pm

Wow, this is so interesting. What a zechus you guys have. I can’t imagine he is thrilled either.
I do know of men that had brissim In adulthood (mostly Russian Jews who never had it done).

trixx

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 6:48 pm

[quote="amother"]It's not very common
And tues nite mikva.....![/quote]

Aw sorry this can't be easy.
But what an incredible chance for a mitzvah. In that zechus may you conceive children quickly and naturally, even this cycle. A heartfelt bracha not meant to minimize current pain.

leah233

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 7:14 pm

Make sure the mohel knows what he is doing.

I've heard of such a case before where there was a concern about potential danger in redoing it.

I don't want to scare you. There probably won't be any danger involved and I have zero medical background myself but just make sure the mohel involved would know how to recognize and deal with any such potential.

crust

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 8:24 pm

Talk to Ari Weiss from Monroe 845 537 1191
I know he has done a lot of these kinds of Bris'n.
Hugs and hatzlacha

Chazak613

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 8:28 pm

I would contact an really experienced Mohel, like Rabbi Pesach Krohn. I'm sure they have previously dealt with such a situation. Hatzlacha!! Hope all goes well!

familyfirst

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 8:50 pm

Speak to rabbi shain- has done many many brissin on adults. If he can't do it himself he will be able to advise you.
Good luck!

amother

Forestgreen

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 8:56 pm

Aw sorry this can't be easy.
But what an incredible chance for a mitzvah. In that zechus may you conceive children quickly and naturally, even this cycle. A heartfelt bracha not meant to minimize current pain.[/quote]

Thanx so much for responding!
AMEIN AMEIN AMEIN!
Bkarov !!

amother

Wheat

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 9:01 pm

amother wrote:

Well, during this cycle only if it's a miracle before the fixing. After fixing he needs to heal.

Cmon be nice

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 9:18 pm

So if not for this testing he would have never known?

amother

Forestgreen

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 9:24 pm

OP here, Yes- mayb this was g-ds way of showing us this needs fixing?!?!
Who knows?

ruby slippers

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 9:42 pm

If you are in Maryland I know a mohel and doctor who is also a mohel who work together on adult circumcision.

ruby slippers

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 9:43 pm

eema1 wrote:

If you are in Maryland I know a mohel and doctor who is also a mohel who work together on adult circumcision.

If not- I would suggest a mohel and urologist to work together.
B'hatazlacha it should all go well and be with mazel and bracha!!

amother

Cyan

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 10:27 pm

Are you sure he needs to have it redone? I know of someone in a similar situation - recently - who was told he does not need to have it redone as long as it was done properly and kosher the first time (which it was).

clowny

Sun, Dec 02 2018, 11:18 pm

Op, this thread touched my heart. Together with your mesiras nefesh and Dh mitzvah, May Hashem help you and you should be blessed with a child bkarov. Wishing you and Dh Hatzlucha, I’m having you both in mind. May all go well!

Raisin

Mon, Dec 03 2018, 5:36 am

Ouch. I'm not a dr but I can't imagine having relations will be possible a day after having a bris.

Hopefully in this zechus you will blessed with children very soon!