What were your kabbalos?

amother

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:05 pm

I always get inspired at this time of year, but have a hard time coming up with kabbalos to try to keep it with me in terms of something concrete to work on. Would love to hear ideas of your kabbalos to try to find some that will resonate with me - could be in shalom bayis, with kids, bein adam l'Makom.

amother

Lightgreen

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:11 pm

To try to be less critical once a week.

amother

Chestnut

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:12 pm

To listen to a 4 minutes shiur daily bh

amother

Kiwi

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:12 pm

Try to keep the weird things my MIL tells me to myself and not tell my husband about how hurt I am from them.

amother

DarkYellow

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:13 pm

Nivul peh. I curse terrible when I am frustrated or angry. It's bad.

amother

Sienna

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:14 pm

Saying brachos before I eat anything. And going to the mikva

kiti

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:17 pm

Daven with more kavanah, lessen my ego

amother

Cappuccino

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:23 pm

Be on top of negel vasser for myself and my kids

amother

Purple

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:25 pm

To say shema with my kids each night beH

amother

DarkMagenta

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:27 pm

I will try do daven Mincha on Shabbos and I hid the intimacy forum on here.

amother

Fern

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:39 pm

Never to argue or speak not nicely in front of the kids

Not to talk about any money matters on Shabbos (ppl often ask how much things cost, what I paid..)

When I pay my cleaning lady to have in mind the mitzvah “byamo titan scharo” (the mitzvah to pay a worker on time). Extra mitzvah for something I am doing anyway.

dena613

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:56 pm

amother DarkMagenta wrote:

I hid the intimacy forum on here.

Same.

amother

Teal

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:56 pm

I'm trying to think about Hashem more constantly in my everyday life, when saying BH or IYH really meaning it and not just saying it out of habit. That is really what RH and YK is about bringing Hashem into your life and connecting to Him on a deeper level. Hatzlacha with whatever Kabbala you choose! Also its important to remember not to take on anything too big that won't last.

amother

Emerald

Wed, Oct 05 2022, 11:58 pm

To talk about certain issues aka people with my friends in the community. I do it without names, but maybe ppl can fgure out which student in referring to.

Really going to try not to.

amother

Valerian

Thu, Oct 06 2022, 12:05 am

To thank HaShem for one thing every night by thinking about it. I’ve tried to thank with words but that never happened I would remember as I’m falling asleep and just skip it.

To limit YouTube and watch Torah anytime when I bored.

amother

Lime

Thu, Oct 06 2022, 12:12 am

I signed up for Hachzek. Have really been enjoying. Anyone else?

amother

Yolk

Thu, Oct 06 2022, 12:13 am

To be a better daughter (visit more)
To say she a every day

Daliya

Thu, Oct 06 2022, 12:40 am

To improve my relationship with:
1-Hashem
2-My mother
3- My husband

I take on one very small change for each one

Roots

Thu, Oct 06 2022, 1:07 am

Learn a lessong a day from let there be rain, Rabbi Wallerstein ztl's book on hakarat hatov

amother

PlumPink

Thu, Oct 06 2022, 1:44 am

From Rosh Hashanah : to get out of bed when I wake up. So far, failed twice, at least.