What to pack along for DD wedding day

amother

OP ↓

Wed, May 24 2023, 11:02 pm

I want to have it packed earlier.. What may I be missing? First one getting married and I have many younger kids..

amother

Daphne ↓

Wed, May 24 2023, 11:12 pm

Mazel tov!
Make sure to have snacks, some quiet games if the little ones are around, extra phone chargers, books, baby wipes for spills, and extra stockings and underwear.

amother

Turquoise

Wed, May 24 2023, 11:58 pm

Tylenol
Birth control
Deodorant
White thread and needle
Mints
Perfume
2nd pair of shoes to switch into by mitzva dance if applicable
Kesuba, I think the mesader kiddishun brings it many times
Kallahs wig if applicable
Veil
Headpiece
Lens solution
Tichel for yourself while having your face done

amother

↑ OP ↓

Thu, May 25 2023, 12:03 am

amother Turquoise wrote:

Cool. I didnt think of some of these things.
Thanks!!

amother

↑ OP ↓

Thu, May 25 2023, 12:05 am

amother Daphne wrote:

Mazel tov!
Make sure to have snacks, some quiet games if the little ones are around, extra phone chargers, books, baby wipes for spills, and extra stockings and underwear.

Games and books?
Stocking and underwear?? Why

amother

Lily ↓

Thu, May 25 2023, 12:06 am

Paci/bottle/blanket if little kids take
Tylenol
Motrin
Deodorant
Pads
Safety pins
Needle & thread
Snacks/sandwiches for kids
Extra underwear for kids
Extra pair of stockings for everyone

amother

↑ Lily

Thu, May 25 2023, 12:07 am

amother OP wrote:

Games and books?
Stocking and underwear?? Why

You can never know. Rather be safe than sorry. It's good to be prepared, especially with little kids.

amother

Snowflake

Thu, May 25 2023, 12:20 am

amother OP wrote:

Games and books?
Stocking and underwear?? Why

When your body is 40 but you dance like a 20 year old you might find out the hard way! Wink

amother

Floralwhite

Thu, May 25 2023, 12:40 am

Shout wipes
Bobby pins
Safety pins

Side tip: make sure your kids are fed before you go to the wedding. Order food if necessary. It’s the difference between kids behaving and not. Make sure you eat as well before the meal. The meal ends up being hectic with pictures and Mazel Tovs…

Pandabeer

Thu, May 25 2023, 8:56 am

amother Turquoise wrote:

Benadryl
Tylenol/motrin
Make up remover for stains
Another pair of white tights
Sheitel box
Bag for jewelry when she takes them off during the chuppa
Tissues
Sanitary pads
Bedika tichlech
Tehillim
Siddur for mincha if the kalla davens in the hall
Colour thread as needed
Hair spray
Curling irons if you have them

amother

Gardenia ↓

Thu, May 25 2023, 8:59 am

Wear a zip up or button down shirt when getting your makeup done so you don't have to pull it over your head.

amother

↑ Gardenia ↓

Thu, May 25 2023, 9:00 am

amother Lily wrote:

You can never know. Rather be safe than sorry. It's good to be prepared, especially with little kids.

Anyone else pack 6 pairs of underwear for a 3 day trip? No? Just me?

amother

↑ Daphne

Thu, May 25 2023, 9:01 am

amother OP wrote:

Games and books?
Stocking and underwear?? Why

If kids are sitting around the hall for hours before the wedding begins, it's good to keep them entertained.

Extra underthings can come in handy in case of rips or stains.

amother

↑ Gardenia

Thu, May 25 2023, 9:03 am

Not a packing thing but if the chosson and kallah are fasting, make sure they eat in the yichud room before dancing.
I was too nervous and didn't and it almost ended in fainting.

amother

Moccasin

Thu, May 25 2023, 9:08 am

amother Gardenia wrote:

Anyone else pack 6 pairs of underwear for a 3 day trip? No? Just me?

😂😂😂 literally me

amother

Forestgreen

Thu, May 25 2023, 9:12 am

Mazel tov! Just to correct the kesubah belongs to the chussen side to bring so dont worry about it

mommyhood

Thu, May 25 2023, 9:30 am

amother OP wrote:

Games and books?
Stocking and underwear?? Why

Stockings rip, yes you can’t see it under the gown but it can be uncomfortable depending how/where it rips.
Underwear I brought because I change out of my gown before leaving the hall, especially nice if you have a long ride home. If everyone is going home in their gowns then I would just pack for the really little ones.
On that note, if you have a baby or toddler bring a pack n play so they can go to sleep.

amother

Hydrangea

Thu, May 25 2023, 10:39 am

Hear me out: get a klonopin wafer prescribed for yourself for day off. Marrying off a child can gobsmack you emotionally. Better be prepared.