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Cleaning lady help: How do you choose?



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amother
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Post Wed, Jun 21 2023, 5:43 pm
how do you know if you are getting someone "safe" when you hire off a whatsapp group? I've heard horror stories and even read some on this website. Any tips appreciated!
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amother
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Post Wed, Jun 21 2023, 5:44 pm
You can never trust anyone fully. You watch them very carefully until they build your trust. And hope they don't break it after 15 years, like a cleaning lady I once had.

Eta I say this in the spirit of "kabdehu vchashdehu". I love my cleaning lady and treat her very well. I absolutely give her respect as any person deserves. That doesn't mean I ever leave her in my house alone.
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amother
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Post Wed, Jun 21 2023, 5:53 pm
Put up cameras Use your seichel a daven to Hashem
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amother
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Post Wed, Jun 21 2023, 9:13 pm
1-Don't leave her alone in the house.
2- family members take turns looking for something in room where she's working so she knows there are always ppl around.
3- hopefully after she comes to you for a while you'll figure out if she's trustworthy
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agreer




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Jun 21 2023, 10:21 pm
In addition to all that above:

1) ASK FOR REFERENCES! It can be anywhere she worked before, even if not as a cleaning lady.
2) Does she seem pleasant? Since you're taking such a chance, don't settle for a grump.
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