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amother
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 Tue, Aug 15 2023, 7:04 pm
What are gets you most annoyed when guests do?
Here are mine:
1) Show up much earlier then meal called for (shabbos morning or at candle lighting)
2) Show up with a bunch of other people who need a meal as well without asking before
3) ask to come for the meals and show up with a suitcase on erev shabbos
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amother
Mimosa
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 7:07 pm
| amother OP wrote: | What are gets you most annoyed when guests do?
Here are mine:
1) Show up much earlier then meal called for (shabbos morning or at candle lighting)
2) Show up with a bunch of other people who need a meal as well without asking before
3) ask to come for the meals and show up with a suitcase on erev shabbos |
2)
It says somewhere that a guest is not allowed to bring another guest. Do people realize it's not ok? none of these are ok to do.
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amother
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 7:07 pm
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ask if they can come for a meal on shabbos but don't ask until 12:30 Friday afternoon, winter shabbos when I just came home from work and barely plan on cooking.
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amother
Caramel
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 7:42 pm
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When they disregard house rules when clearly told.
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amother
Plum
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 7:45 pm
Don't offer to help, leave garbage in the room, show up right before shabbos, bring extra people to meals, don't tell you about food allergies or vegetarian stuff like that 
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amother
Cinnamon
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 7:50 pm
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move my furniture and dont move it back
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613mitzvahgirl
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 7:52 pm
When they dont offer to help their messes. I’m scared what goes on in their houses. Eek.
I also get annoyed when they come for a Shobbos day meal exhausted like they just woke up five minutes before they come and when they aren’t hungry for the meal, after I planned snd cooked since I heard they were coming for the meal. And when they come for the night meal and they are yawning away by Shalom Aleichem. I get it, I know they might of had a long week or day, but still it’s unfair- in my opinion.
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Cheiny
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 7:53 pm
| amother OP wrote: | What are gets you most annoyed when guests do?
Here are mine:
1) Show up much earlier then meal called for (shabbos morning or at candle lighting)
2) Show up with a bunch of other people who need a meal as well without asking before
3) ask to come for the meals and show up with a suitcase on erev shabbos |
I’ve never had any of those things happen.
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amother
Tealblue
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 7:54 pm
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Ema of 5
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 7:56 pm
| amother OP wrote: | What are gets you most annoyed when guests do?
Here are mine:
1) Show up much earlier then meal called for (shabbos morning or at candle lighting)
2) Show up with a bunch of other people who need a meal as well without asking before
3) ask to come for the meals and show up with a suitcase on erev shabbos |
Say they are coming for a meal and then not show up.
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amother
Chestnut
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 7:57 pm
| 613mitzvahgirl wrote: | When they dont offer to help their messes. I’m scared what goes on in their houses. Eek.
I also get annoyed when they come for a Shobbos day meal exhausted like they just woke up five minutes before they come and when they aren’t hungry for the meal, after I planned snd cooked since I heard they were coming for the meal. And when they come for the night meal and they are yawning away by Shalom Aleichem. I get it, I know they might of had a long week or day, but still it’s unfair- in my opinion. | Oy I come tired and don't eat much
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Goody2shoes
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 8:07 pm
I have it when they take over my kitchen and insist on showing me all the things I do wrong when I prepare or serve.
Don't open my fridge to look for things that I didn't plan on serving!
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DVOM
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 8:08 pm
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Ask to come for shabbos, and assume my 'yes' means Thursday night, Saturday night and Sunday night too.
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hodeez
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 8:09 pm
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When they don't mechanech their kids!!!
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amother
Glitter
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 8:32 pm
An entitled attitude.
I can forgive almost anything if they are apologetic and not demanding.
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amother
Ruby
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 8:36 pm
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I don’t have guests so nothing gets me annoyed.
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amother
Camellia
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 8:41 pm
| Ema of 5 wrote: | | Say they are coming for a meal and then not show up. |
This happened one yr the last day of RH
A family of 8 so I cooked especially for them
I got worried so I called after YT was over
The wife apologized and said they were just tired and decided to stay home and rake it easy.
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amother
Narcissus
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 8:42 pm
Guest that are supposed to come for shabbos, Arrive Friday morning and leave Sunday night because why not have a mini vacation? (Guests that don't live far.)
Guests that don't live far Arriving afew minutes to shabbos and wanting to shower them and all kids.
Eating in bedrooms.
Allowing kids to make a mess and destroy things.
Not intervening when their kids keep fighting and hurting my kids.
Sending their kids out of the room at 6 AM while parents sleep till 10.
Eating on the couch.
Letting kids jump on the couch.
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CPenzias
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Tue, Aug 15 2023, 8:52 pm
| alwayssmiling wrote: | I have it when they take over my kitchen and insist on showing me all the things I do wrong when I prepare or serve.
Don't open my fridge to look for things that I didn't plan on serving! |
Omg! This would make me crazy! I hate sharing my kitchen.
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