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Do you eat a hot, fleishig meal after YK?

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Total Votes : 198

amother

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:24 am

I’m so curious how common this minhag is. Please feel free to specify what your community affiliation is (chassidish, yeshivish, sefardi, MO, etc)

amother

Periwinkle

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:27 am

Growing up we did
Regular litvish OOT
Now we do not, heimish/chassidish in town husband
I’m sure that will skew your results lol

amother

DarkYellow

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:28 am

We have the minhag in theory but in practice, I am normally on the couch vomiting and can’t move. I break my fast on a power ade pop and wait an hour or two before I add in food. It takes a few hours till I can eat any more than a cracker or two.

amother

Burlywood

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:28 am

Yeshivish yes
First we had honey cake and drinks while the food was warming up then washed and:
Challah
Soup with kreplach
Chicken kugels
Potato knish couscous
Al leftovers from before the fast

BH Yom Yom

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:30 am

Depends on the year and what each of us are in the mood of eating.

ETA: JPF, lean yeshivish-lite

Last edited by BH Yom Yom on Tue, Sep 26 2023, 3:48 pm; edited 1 time in total

amother

Maize

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:30 am

Yes chabad

amother

Eggplant

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:31 am

Yes.
Chassidish

gootlfriends

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:33 am

I grew up eating what was served. Non fleishig is for a mourning fast, not yom kippur which is a yom tov as far as I know.

amother

Jasmine

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:33 am

No. Jpf Ashkenaz. Dh can give you sources where it’s brought down that you’re supposed to have a festive yom tov meal. We feel better eating light after the fast and never did this before we were married either. I offer bread and whoever wants washes and bentshes.

amother

Yarrow

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:34 am

Yes, chassidish.
We broke our fast on cake and coffee, then about an hour or so later we had: Challah, fish, soup, meat.

scruffy

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:34 am

I did not grow up that way, but dh actually just told me it's his family minhag. So bli neder we'll do fleishig next year.

amother

Outerspace

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:36 am

Yes. Chabad.

We make havdala. Have fruit, drinks and cake.
Wash and have chicken soup, krepels, a fresh salad, stuffed cabbage, rice and leftovers from pre-fast meal.

B4 yom Tov I make the soup, stuff the cabbage but don’t cook it in sauce yet, prepare the rice, make the krepels. Right after yom Tov I put it all up…

amother

Aquamarine

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:39 am

No. We eat bagels. We make hamotzi and bensch, but don't set a fancy table for it. We are MO. Also, BTs, so it is possible we have overlooked something. I am going to ask my LOR now, because I'm curious about it.

I felt terrible after this year's fast and threw up the first glass of water I drank. I can't imagine making a whole fancy meal in that condition, even if it was just heating up and setting the table and serving and putting away.

mha3484

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:44 am

Fleishig yes hot no. Last year I got this idea to make Chicken Cesar Salad and it was so good I made it again this year. Its meat which DH wants but not heavy so you feel sick after. Everyone liked it so much I think will make it a tradition. We are Yeshivish.

honeymoon

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:45 am

Yes. Chassidish. We had cake and coffee while the food was being warmed. Served fresh salmon and leftovers from erev yk.

Reality

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:49 am

Yes, JPF.

It's not a fancy meal. We have challah and chicken soup with kreplach. Some people stop there. Anyone who wants can have chicken and sides from before the fast.

amother

Holly

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:52 am

Yes, chassidish
Usually only DH eats fleishigs, and I wash but have a second coffee.

amother

Thistle

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:54 am

The idea of eating fleish after a 26 hour fast turns my stomach.

amother

Razzmatazz

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:54 am

Yes, chassidish.
We broke the fast on baked goods. A couple of hours later we washed on challah, had a small slice of salmon and I served chicken soup.

renslet

Tue, Sep 26 2023, 10:55 am

Yes
Chabad
I try to make enough before the fast for afterwards.
Put up the chicken soup and kreplach to warm up as soon as I walked in the door
Rice, dips, salad from before. We had finished all the chicken so I took out some frozen meat.
Took about a half hour to heat, by the time they came home from shul (there's havdala and cake there) it was ready.

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