URGENT! Tenants baby has babysitter and baby is screeching

amother

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 12:30 pm

Tenants few month old baby has a regular older woman babysitter and baby is screeching a long time.

Would you message the mother?

InnerPrincess

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 12:30 pm

How long is a long time?

InnerPrincess

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 12:31 pm

And is this a regular babysitter? Does the baby always cry like this when she is watching?

Einikel

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 12:31 pm

Oy vey! Did you try knocking on the door?

justforfun87

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 12:32 pm

Yes, at least shoot a text.

groovy1224

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 12:32 pm

Yes of course, what are you waiting for? I'd actually go knock on the door myself and see what's going on.

Queen Of Hearts

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 12:32 pm

I would definitely let her know.

amother

Cherry

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 12:32 pm

Knock on the door and ask if there's anything you can do to help. Later tell the mother.

amother

Cyan

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 12:52 pm

amother Cherry wrote:

Knock on the door and ask if there's anything you can do to help. Later tell the mother.

This. Wellness check on baby and babysitter.

If my neighbor heard my baby screaming for an extended amount of time, I'd want to be checked on... maybe I'm hurt.

amother

DarkKhaki

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 12:57 pm

Please call the mother. I once left my newborn by a babysitter. She was there for 45 minutes and crying the whole time. The babysitter told me that she didn't hold her because she didn't calm down when she held her and that it's just behavioral. A newborn Hashem Yeracheim!

observer

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 12:59 pm

I would go knock on the door and check in.
And text the mother after.

amother

Forestgreen

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 1:00 pm

Yes yes yes yes. I would be so appreciative if this was my baby, whether or not something was actually going wrong.

giftedmom

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 1:01 pm

Knock on the door and see if they’re okay

amother

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 1:18 pm

Situation is resolved B"H. I wont say how.

amother

Antiquewhite

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 2:16 pm

amother OP wrote:

Situation is resolved B"H. I wont say how.

Why wouldn't you say how?That leaves everyone in anxious suspense...

amother

Cyan

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 2:21 pm

amother Antiquewhite wrote:

Why wouldn't you say how?That leaves everyone in anxious suspense...

OP asked for advice on what to do. Her intention was not to publish a serial about her tenant, her tenants baby and the babysitter.

amother

NeonYellow

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 2:24 pm

amother Cyan wrote:

OP asked for advice on what to do. Her intention was not to publish a serial about her tenant, her tenants baby and the babysitter.

She asked for advice. She was given advice. The nice thing to do is to say how the situation was resolved without going in to details. Otherwise, it's just taking advantage of people.

amother

Cyan

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 2:24 pm

amother NeonYellow wrote:

She asked for advice. She was given advice. The nice thing to do is to say how the situation was resolved without going in to details. Otherwise, it's just taking advantage of people.

How do you figure?

amother

Honeysuckle

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 2:25 pm

amother Cyan wrote:

OP asked for advice on what to do. Her intention was not to publish a serial about her tenant, her tenants baby and the babysitter.

We are allowed to want to know. It's human nature to be curious. Op asked for advice and we all tried to help and were worried about the baby. She doesn't HAVE to say how the situation resolved but it would be nice...

Queen Of Hearts

Tue, Oct 10 2023, 2:25 pm

amother Cyan wrote:

OP asked for advice on what to do. Her intention was not to publish a serial about her tenant, her tenants baby and the babysitter.

It's the way she responded 'won't say how'. There's a nicer way of saying you can't share after a bunch of women took the time to respond to your post.