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Did you make a pidyon haben?
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did you make a pidyon haben?
yes  
 42%  [ 53 ]
no, because I had a girl first  
 28%  [ 36 ]
no, because my dh is a kohen/levi or I am a bas kohen/levi  
 16%  [ 20 ]
no, because of c-section  
 9%  [ 12 ]
no, other, please explain  
 3%  [ 4 ]
Total Votes : 125



yo'ma




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:25 am
I'm curious to see how many pple made one. I didn't because my first was a girl. I have one brother who also had a girl first and one sister who married a kohen, otherwise everybody else made one, so far. Still have some single siblings and siblings who don't have any children yet Wink .
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Tamiri




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:26 am
I did.
My sister did.
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Lady Godiva




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:28 am
Yes, thank God we had the privilege to do this Mitzvah.
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amother


 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:31 am
Well my first child is a boy but we didn't have one because the first pregenancy ended in a misscarriage,
my brother had one and it was very nice
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Zus




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:32 am
You're missing a few important options:

- No, my son was born by C
- No, I/my DH is a levy

Also, the cohen option should read I/DH is a cohen.

We didn't make one because DH is a levy.
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Tamiri




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:34 am
Bat cohen also doesn't
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yo'ma




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:34 am
Zus wrote:
You're missing a few important options:

- No, my son was born by C
- No, I/my DH is a levy

Also, the cohen option should read I/DH is a cohen.

We didn't make one because DH is a levy.

I didn't know that babies born by c-section don't have one.
Didn't think of Levy.
If you're a bas cohen, you also don't? didn't know. None of these never applied to me or anyone in my family, so I didn't know.
Thank you, I'll ask a mod to fix it.
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Zus




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:38 am
And also add "no, I had a miss first".
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Zus




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:38 am
And also bat cohen and bat levy.
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yo'ma




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:39 am
Zus wrote:
And also add "no, I had a miss first".

the list could go on forever, the other will be enough for that. I already asked a mod.
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sunshine!




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:39 am
No, because I am a Bas Levi. But my son is a Yisroel, so perhaps if he marries Yisroel, we will yet have one in the family.
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greenfire




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:39 am
I had a girly first ... Lady
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Zus




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:39 am
yo'ma wrote:
Zus wrote:
And also add "no, I had a miss first".

the list could go on forever, the other will be enough for that. I already asked a mod.


No, that's about it. Those are the most common reasons not to make a pidyon haben.
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tovasmom




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:41 am
I had a girl first.

And she was a C-Section.

The C-Section reason is pretty common too.
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Raisin




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:42 am
3 good reasons:

1. I had a girl first
2. dh is a levi
3. I am a bas levi
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manhattanmom




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:45 am
I did! It was really nice and my husband was really glad to have the opportunity that hadn't been done in his family for many generations (my MIL is a bas levi.)
But yeh, you should definitely update the poll--add all those options.
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Pineapple




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:47 am
Zus wrote:
And also bat cohen and bat levy.


Or eishes cohen
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Zus




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:50 am
Pineapple wrote:
Zus wrote:
And also bat cohen and bat levy.


Or eishes cohen


That's when DH is a cohen. It's already there.
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Pineapple




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:50 am
Zus wrote:
Pineapple wrote:
Zus wrote:
And also bat cohen and bat levy.


Or eishes cohen


That's when DH is a cohen. It's already there.


Sorry
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elf123




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 06 2008, 10:51 am
I had a boy first, but I am a bas levi, so no pidyon haben. For some reason, this topic comes up rather frequently, and most people will say that they have not gone to too many in their lives. I myself can think of two that I've attended. Until you stop to think about it, you don't realize how rare they are...so many reasons for NOT having one. Out of a combined 5 siblings between me and DH, and b'h everyone married w/ children, no one has made or will make one.
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