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amother
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 Mon, Mar 04 2024, 8:21 pm
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If both yours and DHs fathers did it, there are no grandfathers and you don’t have a rav or similar to give to
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amother
Silver
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 8:22 pm
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Either of your fathers again.
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amother
Wine
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 8:24 pm
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You have no one in your life that you go to for a shaila or for advice? Even an older brother or brother in law?
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amother
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 8:24 pm
AFAIK they are not supposed to do it more than once
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amother
Crimson
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 8:25 pm
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What about a brother/bil/uncle?
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amother
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 8:27 pm
| amother Wine wrote: | | You have no one in your life that you go to for a shaila or for advice? Even an older brother or brother in law? |
I do but he won’t be attending
Brothers would be tricky between mine and DHs and I feel the ones not asked would be insulted
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amother
Razzmatazz
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 8:30 pm
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My husband just did it for our boy number 4.
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BH Yom Yom
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 8:33 pm
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We had two different rabbanim do it (one for each boy so far)
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happy7
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 8:34 pm
Family friend who you respect and love
Rabbi of your shul
Rabbi of a different shul
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mushkamothers
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 8:43 pm
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Your dh!! Really he's supposed to do it but as a sign of kavod he gives it to the fathers. Now he can take a turn!
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amother
Bone
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 8:45 pm
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Same question. Bh almost done with iyh a boy. Will be my third boy. Both mine and dh father already did it. I have a grandfather but not sure he can hold baby for so long for bris. Otherwise maybe an uncle.or something.
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amother
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 9:25 pm
| amother Bone wrote: | | Same question. Bh almost done with iyh a boy. Will be my third boy. Both mine and dh father already did it. I have a grandfather but not sure he can hold baby for so long for bris. Otherwise maybe an uncle.or something. |
We have had a very old grandfather doing it, it's a beautiful thing if he's still around. He will be helped by someone near him.
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amother
Slategray
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 9:27 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | AFAIK they are not supposed to do it more than once |
???? More than once in a lifetime???
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amother
Lotus
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 9:30 pm
Your husband takes it.
It's a huge bracha!
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amother
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 9:38 pm
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amother
Smokey
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 9:38 pm
As far as I understand not more than once in the same family. Besides for a Rav who can have the kavod multiple times in the same family. I know a family who has knh many many boys. The grandfathers , uncles , has one time each. The Rav had multiple times . It’s become a standing joke.
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amother
Babyblue
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 9:49 pm
If a person was not aware of it, it can happen, that someone does it twice in a family, but it isn’t supposed to be that way.
Any male whom you respect and are close to in some way can do so, or your husband (as mentioned), can do it .
Maybe ask the mohel for a suggestion?
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amother
Tiffanyblue
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 10:09 pm
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If your FIL was meyushav last time and father was me’umad you might be able to swap this time. Ask a rav.
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amother
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Mon, Mar 04 2024, 10:13 pm
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