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amother
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Post Fri, May 10 2024, 4:59 pm
The night I was looking into to book the hall was July 22nd, the night b4 shiva asar btammuz. Is that OK? Music after nightfall?
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amother
Salmon


 

Post Fri, May 10 2024, 5:03 pm
Ask your Rav
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amother
Brunette


 

Post Fri, May 10 2024, 5:03 pm
Even if it were, which I doubt, why would you want your child or yourself to start married life in a period of mourning? Wait three weeks and get married in a time of joy.
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amother
Tuberose


 

Post Fri, May 10 2024, 5:11 pm
We went to a wedding that night last year, child of a chashuv Rav I’m sure both sides asked shailos. They made the wedding earlier than typical so chuppah and first dance were before shkiya but dancing continued later.
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amother
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Post Fri, May 10 2024, 5:15 pm
amother Tuberose wrote:
We went to a wedding that night last year, child of a chashuv Rav I’m sure both sides asked shailos. They made the wedding earlier than typical so chuppah and first dance were before shkiya but dancing continued later.

I wonder if we went to the same wedding. A
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amother
Salmon


 

Post Fri, May 10 2024, 5:17 pm
There were weddings last night that ended late after Rosh Chodesh ended and it sefira for everyone
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amother
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Post Fri, May 10 2024, 5:19 pm
amother Salmon wrote:
There were weddings last night that ended late after Rosh Chodesh ended and it sefira for everyone


I think this is a little different
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amother
Maroon


 

Post Sat, May 11 2024, 5:01 pm
Please ask your Rav! There are definitely people who do this and considering that the wedding has already been scheduled and it will be a great inconvenience to change plus loss of $$, plus disappointment to Chosson and Kallah there may be even more room to be lenient...
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heretolearn




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, May 18 2024, 11:18 pm
I got married that night last year. We asked R Elya Brudny and he said it’s completely fine.
(His brother married off his child that same night)
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amother
NeonPurple


 

Post Sun, May 19 2024, 9:38 am
I have a cousin making a wedding this year July 22. Very choshuva family
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