How do they act worry free?

amother

Fri, May 17 2024, 11:23 am

Bh my husband is amazing at taking responsibility of the finances, and really does not want to burden me with it.
But, I just can’t take a step back.
Especially since we deal with these things differently.
While at the end of the day our assets are much more than our liabilities we have around $100k of personal debt ( besides mortgages).
He has juggled it all until now, and it seems like there is more income coming as as time passes, but all I can do in my head is try to figure out how long it’s going to take us to pay down our debt, and hope that it will happen before other huge life expenses start popping up.

I obsess about it all day. And I know there are many people around me with financial difficulties, and keep wondering if they’re also stressing about it like me? If they’ve given up control? They have more faith?
Tell me the secret?

amother

Bisque

Fri, May 17 2024, 11:27 am

I mean that is a lot of debt, but I personally try to focus on believing at all income comes from HKBH.
Why do you have so much debt?

amother

Pewter

Fri, May 17 2024, 11:28 am

If the personal debt would be added to your mortgage and you'd have 100k more on your mortgage, would psychologically that be easier? Why?