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Tefila
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Fri, Feb 03 2006, 4:17 pm
Well anyone
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cindy324
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Sat, Feb 04 2006, 8:14 pm
well, for starters DO NOT spill all your personal stuff the first time! This happened to me once and I felt like I needed to get away from this person immediately. We're talking everything from personal hygene to bedroom talk. Big turn off, it was like : Hello! We just met!
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chen
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Sat, Feb 04 2006, 8:25 pm
Approach them with a smile, introduce yourself. Make a complimentary remark about them: I love your blouse/necklace/hat, it's my favorite color/style; I was impressed by your response to the speaker's statement about____________; Your children are so cute/well-behaved/daven so nicely
or, ask a question: "Oh, I see you are buying Markowitz Meals, how do they compare to Haddar meals? Is that a chayote? how do you cook that? "
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happymom
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Sat, Feb 04 2006, 8:49 pm
if you are friendly, and caring and a good LISTENER, it isn't too hard to make friends:)
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chen
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Sat, Feb 04 2006, 8:57 pm
Be cheerful and upbeat. Do NOT read off a megillas eichoh of your tzores and do NOT make negative comments about the place you are at: the neighborhood, the shul, the wedding hall, the school, the food, whatever.
asking someone's opinion, advice or recipe will usually dispose them kindly to you.
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Tefila
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Sat, Feb 04 2006, 9:30 pm
Quote: | negative comments about the place you are at: the neighborhood, the shul, the wedding hall, the school, the food, whatever. |
Or Town good point
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He*Sings*To*Me
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Thu, Feb 09 2006, 3:45 am
I'm unsure whose on here it is, but one of our very own members has a great quote on her signature line. It is something to the effect: there are two kinds of people who enter a room. Those who enter and say "here I am" and those who say "Ah, there you are!"
Somehow, I think that could apply in this thread...be "into" people genuinely and they cannot help but like you!
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Mommy912
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Wed, Feb 15 2006, 6:42 pm
Don't ask potential friends a million trivial personal questions
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realeez
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Wed, Feb 15 2006, 6:51 pm
stick to neutral subjects at first. don't ask about family, children, etc b/c you don't know what can of worms you may open!
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queen
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Wed, Feb 15 2006, 7:08 pm
be genuinely interested in them..... everyone likes to be listened to
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Tefila
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Wed, Feb 14 2007, 5:30 pm
Hmmm now if only I could apply those rules I would be just dandy
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