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amother
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 Fri, Apr 25 2014, 5:46 pm
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I am bh married for bit over three years but I beer felt really happy my husband tries to be helpful bathes my baby and puts her to sleep but I don't feel loved he never kisses me or cuddles with me and has relations maybe once a week whenever I talk to him about it he says he tries to be helpful and does everything for me although I think he puts the baby to sleep so he can too be says he's not Romantic because he works hard that's not excuse I can't take it anymore I need love and don't feel like I'm getting it am I overreacting? What should I do ? I begged to go for therapy but he got mad and refused he keeps on saying if I'm that bad lets divorce but I have a family I can't do it
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Dolly Welsh
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Fri, Apr 25 2014, 5:54 pm
Guy's tight about something. Presumably you know his past, his thoughts?
New job, terror of being fired, rough background, still-new marriage? Adjusting to new baby, new responsibilities and all that?
Could you be a little post partum d? That's no crime. It's all a lot.
But yes the guy's busy with something.
Do not do what did not work last time. Do not just keep doing it hoping it will work this time.
I hope you feel better.
What you said he said sounded very hurt. Meaning, he was hurt. Not terribly tactful but also hurt.
There, there. It evens out eventually.
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chani8
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Sat, Apr 26 2014, 5:07 pm
Bathes and puts the baby to bed?? That's super romantic to me! But then, my
love language is "acts of service".
I think you need to read the book, The Five Love Languages
https://kindle.amazon.com/work.....CVAQQ
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