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amother
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 10:16 am
Do you and DH both bless your children?
When? Early in the day? After candle-lighting? Other?
I don't remember if my parents did before or after candle-lighting but my father was wearing his kittel already.
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Fabulous
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 10:18 am
We do it by the late meal . But it can be done any time do the day
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Iymnok
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 10:21 am
After the seuda hamafsekes, before candle lighting. This year Dh did it just before bentching. He took one kid at a time on his lap (or a chair next to him for the bigger ones) while the others an wild around the house adding greatly to the pre Yom Kippur atmosphere.
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thunderstorm
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 10:21 am
Only DH bentches the kids. He does it after the Seudos hamafsekes right before going to shul.
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amother
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 10:27 am
DH bentch's the kids before he goes to shul wearing his kital & Tallis. It's so nice I cry every single year.
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amother
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 10:37 am
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Iymnok
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 10:40 am
amother wrote: | What does he say? |
The text written in the machzor.
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amother
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 12:11 pm
DH did not grow up being blessed by his parents while I did and I feel very strongly about it, so I bless our children every Friday night and on Erev YK.
I did it before we ate the seuda hamafseket.
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MiracleMama
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 12:13 pm
We both do this before lighting.
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ra_mom
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 2:50 pm
Either my FIL does it when we go visit erev YK or else dh does it before candle lighting.
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Zehava
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 2:54 pm
My father does when we eat the meal by him and dh does right before candlelighting
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 2:56 pm
Only DH does it right before he goes to shul before I light the candles.
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amother
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Thu, Sep 20 2018, 2:56 pm
Whenever I remember, usually later in the day. This was not a family minhag but our ds asked us to do this so now we do. Our dc are no longer living at home so we do it by phone.
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