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Seraph
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 2:07 pm
do you teach your kids to tuck their shirts in or do you let them leave it out? does it make a difference boy or girl or what theyre wearing? from what age?
I'll tell you- when I see guys in black and white not tucked in I think they're very shlumpy and wonder why their parents werent mechanech them better... but when I see girls tucked in, I think it looks funny...
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creativemommyto3
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 2:11 pm
I agree, my 5 year old tucks his in while my four year old doesnt. I never let them out of the house without it.
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amother
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 2:33 pm
Quote: | but when I see girls tucked in, I think it looks funny... |
Why? I think its so much more important for a girl to look neat and put together.
I think its more of a chabad 'thing' for boys to wear 'out'. I very often see chabad bochurim/yungeleit tucked out. I dont mean to start a neg. thread about chabad here, just curious, is there a special reason for this?
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mimivan
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 2:41 pm
Yes, it is a thing by us. And no, I don't know the reason for it. Sorry alot of you think it looks slumpy...I thought so at first (and I'm not such a "neat" person, but it kind of grew on me.
I agree Breslov about the issue with women. I think I should tuck in, but sometimes I think it shows too much of my figure (not that I'm wearing something tight.) But then I wonder if I look shlumpy with my shirt out. What do you think about women with their shirts out?
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Squash
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 2:41 pm
I never thought of this as a chinuch issue. I just think EVERYONE looks better and neater tucked in.
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Seraph
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 2:50 pm
I don't think women's shirts/skirts are made to be tucked in, and when you tuck them in they look funny- meaning the clothing does, and it emphasizes parts of the body that aren't flattering...
I never tuck my shirt in. But if my husband untucked, I'd get a little annoyed at him for going around shlumpy.
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mimivan
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 2:53 pm
It would also make him look Lubavitch
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Seraph
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 2:58 pm
mimivan wrote: | It would also make him look Lubavitch |
na, the long peyos counteract that theory.
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Mrs. XYZ
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 3:00 pm
Quote: | I don't think women's shirts/skirts are made to be tucked in, and when you tuck them in they look funny- meaning the clothing does, and it emphasizes parts of the body that aren't flattering... |
I guess that depends on ones figure. Skinny people have no 'unflattering" parts to hide!
Would you also wear tucked out on shabbos and to simchos?
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mimivan
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 3:00 pm
I'm getting off topic (I never do that ) but I actually know some Lubavs with long peyos...they started out Satmar or something else and kept their peyos long when they became Chabad.
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Ruchel
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 3:02 pm
I never wear shirts, so I don't have the problem
Personally, if my children wear shirts, I'll make them do what the others at school do and that's it.
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Seraph
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 3:29 pm
Mrs. XYZ wrote: | Quote: | I don't think women's shirts/skirts are made to be tucked in, and when you tuck them in they look funny- meaning the clothing does, and it emphasizes parts of the body that aren't flattering... |
I guess that depends on ones figure. Skinny people have no 'unflattering" parts to hide!
Would you also wear tucked out on shabbos and to simchos? |
Yes. Wore untucked to my son's bris. A wrap around shirt would look really weird tucked in. As would suit jackets. As would most of my shirts...
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chocolate moose
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 3:30 pm
Never even thought about such a thing !
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mimivan
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 3:35 pm
Ruchel wrote: | I never wear shirts, so I don't have the problem
Personally, if my children wear shirts, I'll make them do what the others at school do and that's it. |
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Ruchel
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 3:38 pm
mimivan wrote: | Ruchel wrote: | I never wear shirts, so I don't have the problem
Personally, if my children wear shirts, I'll make them do what the others at school do and that's it. |
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oh lol I don't mean I go around in bra!!
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chocolate moose
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 3:38 pm
She must mean BLOUSES. Chill !
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Ruchel
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 3:46 pm
I mean I wear tops without buttons, you see what I mean?
I read here recently many frum women wear slips under their skirts, do you wear something between the bra and the blouse/shirt/top? Tzitzis? (joke!)
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amother
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 5:42 pm
Quote: | I read here recently many frum women wear slips under their skirts, do you wear something between the bra and the blouse/shirt/top? Tzitzis? (joke!) |
Yes there are some real ultra-frum woman who always wear a "chaseedishe slip". Thats like a long sleeved cotton undershirt.
But most frum woman that I know, usually only wear a skirt slip.
If my top is somewhat see-thru then I usually wear my dhs undershirt.
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timeout
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 5:48 pm
With my sons school one of the policies is from First Grade on all shirts muct be tucked in, personally I agree.
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Ruchel
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Mon, Oct 15 2007, 5:52 pm
amother wrote: | Quote: | I read here recently many frum women wear slips under their skirts, do you wear something between the bra and the blouse/shirt/top? Tzitzis? (joke!) |
Yes there are some real ultra-frum woman who always wear a "chaseedishe slip". Thats like a long sleeved cotton undershirt.
But most frum woman that I know, usually only wear a skirt slip.
If my top is somewhat see-thru then I usually wear my dhs undershirt. |
thanks!
do all frum women wear skirt slips? I didn't know people still wore them.
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