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amother
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Thu, Dec 10 2020, 9:01 am
Did you send anything to your real estate attorney & lender after closing on a house?
WHO did you send a nice platter to and what did you send ?
Is it weird to send a box of donuts to attorney's office after we close??
I want to hear what people do that's normal!!!
thanks!
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notshanarishona
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Thu, Dec 10 2020, 9:06 am
I was just wondering the same thing. My initial thought is they get paid enough that you don’t have too but if you have someone who went above and beyond then I would.
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Genius
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Thu, Dec 10 2020, 9:16 am
notshanarishona wrote: | I was just wondering the same thing. My initial thought is they get paid enough that you don’t have too but if you have someone who went above and beyond then I would. |
Yep. They should probably send you a platter. Ironically mine sent me one.🤫
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amother
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Thu, Dec 10 2020, 9:23 am
I work for a mortgage broker and sometimes we would get a thank you from our clients after closing. It was always so thoughtful and appreciated.
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amother
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Thu, Dec 10 2020, 9:27 am
Genius wrote: | Yep. They should probably send you a platter. Ironically mine sent me one.🤫 |
lol
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thunderstorm
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Thu, Dec 10 2020, 9:28 am
I received a gift from my real estate agent and from my mortgage broker after we closed. We didn’t gift anyone.
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watergirl
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Thu, Dec 10 2020, 9:38 am
You do not gift your agent or lawyer or whatever. They made a lot off their work for you. Like others have said, it is more common for the agent to gift YOU. The way I thank my agent for his hard work for us is by passing on his name and his card often. And when someone I referred to him closes on a house, he brings me a $100 gift card to target.
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amother
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Thu, Dec 10 2020, 9:42 am
Our agent gave us a gift card to a kosher takeout near our new house. She said she does so for all her clients to give them a little welcome.
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amother
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Thu, Dec 10 2020, 9:45 am
My husband is a real estate attorney and he often gets small gifts after doing closings. Often this is because there were difficulties in the process that he helped negotiate. It's not expected, though.
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amother
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Thu, Dec 10 2020, 12:45 pm
It's not expected however always appreciated! They do make money however also put in hard work.
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amother
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Thu, Dec 10 2020, 12:49 pm
Generally, you don't tip a professional. Lawyers, doctors and accountants don't get tips. You tip a service provider - hairdresser, trash collector, waiter/waitress, cab driver etc.
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amother
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Thu, Dec 10 2020, 1:18 pm
My realtor and mortgage broker gave us a gift. We tipped ($$$) the title closer. We gave a small gift to one of the lawyers at the closing who went beyond his duties to help us at the table.
My bil is a lawyer and will sometimes gets food gifts from returning clients. I believe they are brought to the table for the closing and then the lawyers take home the extras.
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