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amother
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 Tue, Jun 29 2021, 10:39 pm
| amother [ Cyan ] wrote: | - I'd feel happy to see you, knowing someone fat could dress great. It would give me hope for when I'm ready to invest more in my appearance.
- I'd "like you" much more than I'd like a skinny, put-together person. I'd feel more camaraderie and less envy. I'd rather be your friend than hers.
But... I'm also fat. And not at all put-together.
So do you actually care what I think? Or are you just asking the skinny, put-together women of this site? |
should I be really honest?
I am only intimidated by skinny people
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amother
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Tue, Jun 29 2021, 10:41 pm
| sushilover wrote: | When I see overweight but put together/pretty women, I always end up staring and probably seem very rude. I just can't help admiring them and wondering if they know just how pretty they are.
When I see strangers who are morbidly obese (more than 100 lbs overweight) I do feel sad for them. I somehow don't feel the same about people I know. I guess when you know someone well, their weight is insignificant compared to their personality.
Just my honest thoughts. |
I am constantly told that my face is really pretty. it's sad that I can't see it cuz I only see fat...
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amother
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Tue, Jun 29 2021, 11:14 pm
| amother [ Sage ] wrote: | ...... all very touching.....
So why is my beautiful very put together daughter struggling so much with shidduchim?
Why when I worked in a store if I asked if anyone needed help the answer would be “ no thanks”, 20 seconds later they would go over to the unknown skinny salesgirl.( little did they know that I was making all the big fashion decisions behind scenes, and came to the front only when it was very hectic and I had time.
On and on I just don’t have the strength to talk about it. |
ouch ouch
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amother
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Tue, Jun 29 2021, 11:22 pm
This made me tear up. So heartbreaking.
Every human (except evil people!) deserves respect and love. At every shake and size.
I am thinking of a heavy woman I know who always was so friendly to me when I moved to the neighborhood. She always has a smile for me and makes me feel noticed. I love her for that!
(I am a thin introvert, for reference.)
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