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Aunt of Kallah won't come to the wedding
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amother
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Post Tue, Jul 20 2021, 5:25 pm
zaq wrote:
You did your part by sending an invitation. You have enough to do planning the wedding. If Auntie is waiting for the gratification of having the family come crawling to her begging her to make their life complete by gracing the simcha with her royal presence...let her wait. Everyone will doubtless be much happier without her there.

The reply to her flimsy excuse for not coming is "We're so sorry you won't be there but we'll imagine you there in spirit. " And then put her out of your minds.


You have a way with words.
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amother
Hyacinth


 

Post Tue, Jul 20 2021, 7:19 pm
amother [ Jasmine ] wrote:
Just leave it alone. It's not worth the stress.

Yup.
Who cares, you don’t sound very close so you won’t miss her too much anyway.
Just make sure she knows she’s invited.
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amother
Amaranthus


 

Post Tue, Jul 20 2021, 7:45 pm
If DH really wanted her there, than I would agree that maybe he should go out if his way to make that clear by calling. But it doesn’t really seem like it’s something that’s so important to him right now, and that’s fine

He did his part by sending the invitation, which obviously shows she was thought of and wanted. Nothing more is necessary and it’s now up to her. If she feels she doesn’t want to go, let her make that decision and live with it.
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