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Tue, May 24 2022, 1:12 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | No
Nothing will make things better |
I didn't mean to make it better, I meant as a distraction
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amother
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Tue, May 24 2022, 1:28 am
amother [ Babypink ] wrote: | I didn't mean to make it better, I meant as a distraction |
Well I came here for distraction
so far that didn't work out too well
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amother
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Tue, May 24 2022, 1:30 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | Well I came here for distraction
so far that didn't work out too well |
I'm sorry I'm not much help.
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amother
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Tue, May 24 2022, 1:33 am
amother [ Babypink ] wrote: | I'm sorry I'm not much help. |
It's not your fault
Don't feel bad
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amother
Babypink
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Tue, May 24 2022, 1:38 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | It's not your fault
Don't feel bad |
I do feel bad, that you're going through a hard time and so sad.
Trying to get to bed now, hope you can too.
Sweet dreams.
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amother
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Tue, May 24 2022, 1:38 am
amother [ Babypink ] wrote: | I do feel bad, that you're going through a hard time and so sad.
Trying to get to bed now, hope you can too.
Sweet dreams. |
Thank you.
My baby just woke up.
I guess that's distraction.
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amother
Babypink
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Tue, May 24 2022, 1:47 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | Thank you.
My baby just woke up.
I guess that's distraction.
Or we can just cry together |
Something that's helped me in difficult times: (If I'm totally off, dismiss me, and please forgive me)
Hold your baby tight. Think about how your baby feels - secure in your arms.
When I bring my babies for shots (or anything else painful but necessary, if you don't vaccinate), I hold my babies, try to soothe them, and say Mommy's here... And then I realize, Hashem is doing the same. It hurts. But like a baby's shot, it's good for us. Just as the baby doesn't know why, he just knows that it hurts and Mommy's not taking away the pain, it hurts us so much and we don't know why. But Hashem is holding us so tight.
I found that only as a Mommy was I able to visualize this. Hold your baby and feel his dependence. There's nothing like that in the world.
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amother
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Tue, May 24 2022, 2:00 am
amother [ Babypink ] wrote: | Something that's helped me in difficult times: (If I'm totally off, dismiss me, and please forgive me)
Hold your baby tight. Think about how your baby feels - secure in your arms.
When I bring my babies for shots (or anything else painful but necessary, if you don't vaccinate), I hold my babies, try to soothe them, and say Mommy's here... And then I realize, Hashem is doing the same. It hurts. But like a baby's shot, it's good for us. Just as the baby doesn't know why, he just knows that it hurts and Mommy's not taking away the pain, it hurts us so much and we don't know why. But Hashem is holding us so tight.
I found that only as a Mommy was I able to visualize this. Hold your baby and feel his dependence. There's nothing like that in the world. |
It's good to have that security.
I don't know what I believe in right now.
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amother
Babypink
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Tue, May 24 2022, 2:02 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | It's good to have that security.
I don't know what I believe in right now. |
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amother
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Tue, May 24 2022, 10:01 pm
Tell me somethin' girl...
For reference
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amother
NeonBlue
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Tue, May 24 2022, 10:15 pm
Hiya! Mind u if I join your pity party? I know it's not the same and mine is probably a lotess tragic then what ure going thru but I was told today that I must start ivf cuz without I can not have children.
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amother
Indigo
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Tue, May 24 2022, 10:37 pm
amother [ NeonBlue ] wrote: | Hiya! Mind u if I join your pity party? I know it's not the same and mine is probably a lotess tragic then what ure going thru but I was told today that I must start ivf cuz without I can not have children. |
Hugs. Please do not minimize your own pain. Everyone has their own struggles and yours are so valid. May you soon be blessed with healthy and beautiful children who bring you only nachas and joy.
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amother
NeonBlue
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Tue, May 24 2022, 10:40 pm
amother [ Indigo ] wrote: | Hugs. Please do not minimize your own pain. Everyone has their own struggles and yours are so valid. May you soon be blessed with healthy and beautiful children who bring you only nachas and joy. |
Thanks. umein! What I was trying to say was I know this isn't my thread but the ops and I don't want to take away from her and whatever she might be going thru. I'm not gonna start a thread for this but it feels good to write it and I love you for your sympathy.
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amother
Babypink
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Tue, May 24 2022, 10:46 pm
amother [ Indigo ] wrote: | May you soon be blessed with healthy and beautiful children who bring you only nachas and joy. |
I see I missed this post right before me. She said it better than I could've.
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amother
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Tue, May 24 2022, 11:44 pm
amother [ NeonBlue ] wrote: | Hiya! Mind u if I join your pity party? I know it's not the same and mine is probably a lotess tragic then what ure going thru but I was told today that I must start ivf cuz without I can not have children. |
I'm sorry it turned into a pity party.
I hope that very soon you'll have a celebratory party.
I'm so sorry for your loss and your difficulties.
Hatzlacha on your journey.
May it go easily for you.
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amother
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Tue, May 24 2022, 11:46 pm
And for those who have an interest, I am fine now.
Trying to take advantage of the brief feeling of peace.
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amother
NeonBlue
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Tue, May 24 2022, 11:46 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote: | I'm sorry it turned into a pity party.
I hope that very soon you'll have a celebratory party.
I'm so sorry for your loss and your difficulties.
Hatzlacha on your journey.
May it go easily for you. |
Thanks and the same to you! How are you doing? I hope less sad then yesterday?
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amother
Babypink
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Tue, May 24 2022, 11:48 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote: | And for those who have an interest, I am fine now.
Trying to take advantage of the brief feeling of peace. |
Hoping that feeling just continues
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