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amother
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Mon, Dec 05 2022, 3:54 pm
What can I buy SPECIAL for DH? Budget is $15
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amother
Green
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Mon, Dec 05 2022, 3:55 pm
I wanted to start such a thread now! My budget is $150 though.
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epic
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Mon, Dec 05 2022, 4:30 pm
There's a great new car diffuser that's hot now!! Perfect for the car.. my husband has it and really enjoys using it when spending time in the car!!
https://www.kayellessentials.c.....fuser
Men's cologne
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Anyone has any ideas for me? My budget is around $100
I was thinking of getting an antique leather zemiros for my husband to use at out shabbos table but those are really not within my budget.
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motherqueen
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Mon, Dec 05 2022, 4:48 pm
epic wrote: | There's a great new car diffuser that's hot now!! Perfect for the car.. my husband has it and really enjoys using it when spending time in the car!!
https://www.kayellessentials.c.....fuser
Men's cologne
Wallet
Anyone has any ideas for me? My budget is around $100
I was thinking of getting an antique leather zemiros for my husband to use at out shabbos table but those are really not within my budget. |
we had the car diffuser from them as a gift and my husband hated it the liquid was used up within days
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amother
Lightblue
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Mon, Dec 05 2022, 4:50 pm
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amother
Wheat
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Mon, Dec 05 2022, 5:12 pm
What about a mug or mouse pad with a picture of the two of you
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amother
Latte
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Mon, Dec 05 2022, 5:16 pm
I got dh a mug. Don’t know how to link on my phone $25. It’s called hydro flask
And also a north face fleece zip up. $70
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amother
Cyclamen
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Wed, Dec 07 2022, 1:05 am
So I want to get something for my husband for chanukah, the problem is that I don't work, so I don't get to have my own money and my husband is very on top of every dollar spent (gets a notification when and where card was swiped) how could I possibly get him something without him seeing the charge?
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amother
Sunflower
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Wed, Dec 07 2022, 6:01 am
amother Latte wrote: | I got dh a mug. Don’t know how to link on my phone $25. It’s called hydro flask
And also a north face fleece zip up. $70 |
Can you post the link for the zip up? I've been looking for something similar and have only seen for over 120.00
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amother
Razzmatazz
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Wed, Dec 07 2022, 6:21 am
I got my husband for his bday a natural magnesium lotion with lavender and melatonin in it. Helps relax the muscles and helps with sleeping.
For chanuka was thinking about new trend resin Challah board
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amother
Chocolate
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Wed, Dec 07 2022, 6:36 am
amother Cyclamen wrote: | So I want to get something for my husband for chanukah, the problem is that I don't work, so I don't get to have my own money and my husband is very on top of every dollar spent (gets a notification when and where card was swiped) how could I possibly get him something without him seeing the charge? |
Put together something from like amazing savings /Walmart and say it was household items
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amother
Latte
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Wed, Dec 07 2022, 8:47 am
amother Sunflower wrote: | Can you post the link for the zip up? I've been looking for something similar and have only seen for over 120.00 |
Not sure how to copy link on my phone. Was from north face website. It’s called mens campshire full zip jacket. Hope it’s what I really wanted cuz dh is picky and yeah they are usually much more expensive
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amother
Ivory
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Wed, Dec 07 2022, 8:52 am
amother Cyclamen wrote: | So I want to get something for my husband for chanukah, the problem is that I don't work, so I don't get to have my own money and my husband is very on top of every dollar spent (gets a notification when and where card was swiped) how could I possibly get him something without him seeing the charge? |
You should have a certain amount you are allowed to spend yourself without questions. This is an unhealthy dynamic. In this case I would say I got you a gift when he asks. He’s not really interested in surprises. He also might prefer that you not buy him a gift and he’d rather keep every penny in the account.
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epic
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Wed, Dec 07 2022, 12:48 pm
What's a resin challah board?
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amother
Lightblue
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Wed, Dec 07 2022, 12:52 pm
amother Ivory wrote: | You should have a certain amount you are allowed to spend yourself without questions. This is an unhealthy dynamic. In this case I would say I got you a gift when he asks. He’s not really interested in surprises. He also might prefer that you not buy him a gift and he’d rather keep every penny in the account. | you're jumping to conclusions..
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amother
Heather
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Wed, Dec 07 2022, 12:56 pm
amother Cyclamen wrote: | So I want to get something for my husband for chanukah, the problem is that I don't work, so I don't get to have my own money and my husband is very on top of every dollar spent (gets a notification when and where card was swiped) how could I possibly get him something without him seeing the charge? |
Do you not have your own bank account at all from before you were married? I could never live like this with someone watching every swipe. 😮
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amother
Heather
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Wed, Dec 07 2022, 12:57 pm
amother Ivory wrote: | You should have a certain amount you are allowed to spend yourself without questions. This is an unhealthy dynamic. In this case I would say I got you a gift when he asks. He’s not really interested in surprises. He also might prefer that you not buy him a gift and he’d rather keep every penny in the account. |
I agree that is an unhealthy and disturbing dynamic.
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amother
Moonstone
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Wed, Dec 07 2022, 1:17 pm
amother Cyclamen wrote: | So I want to get something for my husband for chanukah, the problem is that I don't work, so I don't get to have my own money and my husband is very on top of every dollar spent (gets a notification when and where card was swiped) how could I possibly get him something without him seeing the charge? |
I actually have the same dynamic and love it!!!
im not worried or anxious about any finances my husband deals with it all
furthermore I dont even have a clue about what he does for a living.
however he doesnt let me walk around with just a cc so every time he gives me cash I put some away in a drawer for when I need to buy him a gift. sometimes I buy it with cash or other times I have a friend swipe her card and I pay her back with cash maybe this can work for you
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amother
Moccasin
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Wed, Dec 07 2022, 1:25 pm
amother Razzmatazz wrote: | I got my husband for his bday a natural magnesium lotion with lavender and melatonin in it. Helps relax the muscles and helps with sleeping.
For chanuka was thinking about new trend resin Challah board |
I would love to see a link to the lotion.
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