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BatZion
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 Mon, Sep 11 2023, 3:33 pm
| Rappel wrote: | I read the rest of the thread now.
Correct me if I'm wrong: For lack of any friends, She may be picking girls whom she considers "cool" rather than the ones whom are nice. It's a self-feeding destructive pattern: "they give me negative attention, and I'm desperate for attention, so I'm attracted toward them."
Ask her teacher for a list of the mature, friendly kids in her class. Explain the situation to their parents, and set up playdates with them. Guide the play dates at first. And ask the teacher to pair her up with the successful candidates wherever possible. |
I don't think a lack of friends is the root of this. She is a well-liked child, in general. They just became a bit of a clique last year and the staff and us parents encouraged it- they were the older kids in that kindergarten and were regarded the mature girls who help the kindergarten teacher etc. I don't know if we've become more open to her going to their houses to play and having them over this year and therefore, I've had more opportunities to see all this play out or whether this is more of a recent development.
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amother
Lightpink
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 3:49 pm
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Some girls are like this. Most are not. I would probably request a class switch for next year if possible. It's such a shame for sweet kids to get caught up in this.
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#BestBubby
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 3:52 pm
Maybe only invite one friend at a time.
This sometimes happens when there are 3 friends, two of them start excluding.
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amother
Magenta
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 4:25 pm
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The bungalow colonies with 25- 30 year old women are sadly like this
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amother
Razzmatazz
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 7:32 pm
| amother Jetblack wrote: | | It’s so obvious. I feel like people choose not to see. Also where do you think they learn to be like that? |
I’m going to venture and guess that the adults in their life are not modelling “nice” behavior
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