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amother
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 Wed, Aug 31 2011, 12:47 am
When you are visiting a friend or relative do you:
1-Expect your hosts to entertain you all the time?
2-Expect your hosts to join you in all outings?
3-Question why they have other guests?
4-Tell off your hosts children-in the presence of the parents. When the children are not doing anything to you to deserve it?
5-Keep your hosts up until late-just talking and talking and talking?
6-Forget that although you may be on vacation, your host isn't?
7-"help" hosts clean up by ordering her children around to do the cleanup?
8-Take food eat, and take seconds before host has even had a chance to sit down?
9-Make tactless comments about hosts house and family-basically insulting them?
Thanx for letting me vent. And the list goes on. B"H they are leaving tomorrow!!
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zaq
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Wed, Aug 31 2011, 8:18 am
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Ugh. Tell me it's not your in-laws.
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amommy
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Wed, Aug 31 2011, 8:54 am
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I feel soooo bad for u. sooooo sorry
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ElTam
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Wed, Aug 31 2011, 9:00 am
I think you should be very busy or out of town the next time they want to come visit. This sounds awful. I hope they are leaving soon!
Hugs.
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miriamnechama
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Wed, Aug 31 2011, 9:05 am
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I had that recently with my brother and my sils it was very hard....
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amother
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Wed, Aug 31 2011, 1:05 pm
OP here.
B"H they realized that their son started school today and not tomorrow-so they left early-instead of after a late lunch.
They are cousins who do a lot for us and I have them come as Hakoras Hatov-even though I know they will drive us all crazy while they are here. Its funny, as I love them very much and we are really good friends. But as guests they are just horrible.
Thanks for commiserating with me. And for letting me vent-it sure helps to get it out anonymously.
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auntie_em
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Wed, Aug 31 2011, 2:51 pm
Glad they're gone, OP.
People like that are best loved from afar! 
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momigor
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Thu, Sep 01 2011, 12:07 am
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You should be able to set some boundaries and not be so constantly available while they stay by you.
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momigor
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Thu, Sep 01 2011, 12:08 am
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You should be able to set some boundaries and not be so constantly available while they stay by you.
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