Also recommend Reach Parenting courses. I took with Shainla Greenwald - but there are a few facilitators and they are all trained through the same course. (I think Mrs Trenk is part of Reach Parenting now but I'm not 100% sure)
It was a small group in someone's house - with lots of give and take. Very practical.
They make the group based on your children's ages so most parents are in the same situation.
Some schools in Lakewood will pay a portion of it with Title I money - you can can ask about it and they can give you more information.