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amother
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Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 5:16 am
I have never felt comfortable in a room Full of men and dont like when when I have to go to school to deliver a forgotten book/lunch. Is this crazy,?
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DrMom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 5:38 am
I am an engineer. I am used to being the only woman in a room full of men. Very Happy

Also, my son's school employs women as teachers as on the administrative staff.

Hashem would have made only one gender if boys weren't supposed to have mothers. You have nothing to be uncomfortable about. Smile
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amother
Floralwhite


 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 5:39 am
Don't you just drop it off in the office?
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aricelli




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 5:53 am
My sons school has so many women floating around- the secretary, the preschool morahs and principals and lol: today most schools have more seits and therapists than children!
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Iymnok




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 6:05 am
Nope, my job is to embarrass him, not the other way around!
My oldest son is 7 and the oldest grade this year is 4th...
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Stars




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 6:13 am
No big deal. Were you abused?
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amother
Chocolate


 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 6:16 am
I also feel a bit uncomfortable - enough that I prefer that my DH (or an older DS)go, but not enough to just skip it. Very Happy
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flmommy




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 6:20 am
Yes I do feel weird walking into a room full of Frum men. Sometimes I have to pick my son up from Father and Son learning and it is a little uncomfortable.
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amother
Wine


 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 6:23 am
If you didnt do anything wrong you don't need to feel uncomfortable.
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Ruchel




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 6:25 am
Nope. I pay.
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naturalmom5




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 7:27 am
Stars wrote:
No big deal. Were you abused?

No she probably went to a very RW bais yacob
The indoctrination was successful
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amother
Green


 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 7:58 am
Stars, where does abuse come in here??????
Some women feel comfortable in such a situation, and some don't. Has nothing with abuse!.
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ectomorph




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 8:00 am
naturalmom5 wrote:
No she probably went to a very RW bais yacob
The indoctrination was successful
wow, nasty
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amother
Forestgreen


 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 8:14 am
ectomorph wrote:
wow, nasty

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amother
Cerulean


 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 8:21 am
naturalmom5 wrote:
No she probably went to a very RW bais yacob
The indoctrination was successful


wow, nasty much???
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mha3484




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 8:32 am
Nah. I’m a good twenty years older the the oldest class. As for the rebbeim we are all adults.
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amother
Seashell


 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 9:00 am
naturalmom5 wrote:
No she probably went to a very RW bais yacob
The indoctrination was successful


Isn't that the same thing as abuse?
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leah233




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 9:06 am
amother [ Seashell ] wrote:
Isn't that the same thing as abuse?



Which school did you go to?

Even if you believe your comment to be true, did they not teach about Onas Devorim there?
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Stars




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 9:15 am
amother [ Green ] wrote:
Stars, where does abuse come in here??????
Some women feel comfortable in such a situation, and some don't. Has nothing with abuse!.


I only asked.
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Emotional




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2019, 9:18 am
OP, you may get more understanding if you post in the Kollel/yeshivish forum
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