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Wed, Oct 21 2020, 10:49 am
I would change up the party to be whatever the law says. That way you can have it in your own garden.
And no offense, but jews can and do tell on other jews, so just because it would be in your parents garden instead of yours means nothing.
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Wed, Oct 21 2020, 11:06 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | In the uk (and specifically where we live) we've been put into tier 3 from friday night. That means no one is allowed into anyone else's house or garden at all!! And no wedding receptions full stop! Its crazy
I told dh if we're anyway doing something wrong we may as well do it 'safer' neighbour wise and be more comfortable at my parents house, or ours!! | My daughter missed her bat mitzvah this year. Pashut did not have one. Same with some boys in the community, no bar mitzvahs either.
OP, sorry, but in my opinion, you do what you need to do to keep the law. I know, its not fun, for you or the bar mitzvah boy.
Or wait it out and do something once you are allowed to do things legally again.
Or have him lein through zoom.
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Wed, Oct 21 2020, 11:11 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | I just feel if schools and shuls are all open still my son deserves a small bar mitzvah. His friends just had in resteraunts and my son was invited to both and some sort of kiddush on shabbos/motzai shabbos. | You asked wwyd? Im telling you what we did.
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Wed, Oct 21 2020, 11:14 am
Follow. The. Law.
What do you teach your children when you openly break the law?
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Wed, Oct 21 2020, 11:15 am
vintagebknyc wrote: | Follow. The. Law.
What do you teach your children when you openly break the law? | This, this, this. 100 times, this.
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Wed, Oct 21 2020, 11:17 am
I'm sorry, these are such horrible times. Is it an option to push off the bar mitzvah a few weeks in the hopes that the rules will loosen up? Also, how many people are allowed to gather at once outdoors? I have a neighbors who did shifts, everyone had a set time to come and leave, so as not to exceed the legal number.
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Wed, Oct 21 2020, 11:18 am
Success10 wrote: | I'm sorry, these are such horrible times. Is it an option to push off the bar mitzvah a few weeks in the hopes that the rules will loosen up? Also, how many people are allowed to gather at once outdoors? I have a neighbors who did shifts, everyone had a set time to come and leave, so as not to exceed the legal number. | Thats such a great idea, the shifts.
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Wed, Oct 21 2020, 11:26 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | No one is allowed in our garden. Period. I live somewhere else, not NYC. It's very hard to push off as my son has been learning his leaning for the specific birthday week for almost a year. | OP, you said in your OP that it was going to be in your garden. Now you say nobody is allowed in your garden???
Also, dont you live in england? You mentioned the fine in pounds. Why would you think she thought you were in nyc?
And what about he leins for your entire family and friends and anyone else who wants to listen, on zoom? I know so many people who have done that this year now.
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Wed, Oct 21 2020, 11:29 am
When you say that shuls are still open, what does that mean? Up to 10 people only, or are more allowed?
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