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Mon, Nov 30 2020, 4:36 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote: | I’m a Morah in a preschool and I really wouldn’t want to run my own playgroup. Plus I have no place to have it. My house is barely inhabitable. My youngest child is 6. |
OK. I know a couple women who were thrown into bad financial situations (do-nothing husbands, divorce....) and opened their own playgroups, and they do not entirely show the income on their taxes. So some of it is legally claimed but some is not shown. That's how they survive. And they do okay for themselves, although obviously they're not exactly rolling in money. But with gvmt programs, and making a significant percentage of their income in cash, they get by, and pay their bills. Barely, but with their heads held high and with dignity. ( If that bothers anyone, call the taxes police.... Lol) So just an idea.
You could make a lot more than $14/hr as a babysitter in your home.
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Mon, Nov 30 2020, 4:56 pm
gold21 wrote: | OK. I know a couple women who were thrown into bad financial situations (do-nothing husbands, divorce....) and opened their own playgroups, and they do not entirely show the income on their taxes. So some of it is legally claimed but some is not shown. That's how they survive. And they do okay for themselves, although obviously they're not exactly rolling in money. But with gvmt programs, and making a significant percentage of their income in cash, they get by, and pay their bills. Barely, but with their heads held high and with dignity. ( If that bothers anyone, call the taxes police.... Lol) So just an idea.
You could make a lot more than $14/hr as a babysitter in your home. |
Maybe I can consider it once we move. I’m also mid schooling for other things. I had to put them aside to go back to work. So hopefully once my husband gets approved for ssdi I can finish my schooling and start working for what I am planning on.
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Mon, Nov 30 2020, 5:03 pm
Simple1 wrote: | I have kids 20+ living at home. It didn't occur to me to charge rent. But they pay for their own clothes, cars and other extras. |
Same here
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Mon, Nov 30 2020, 5:49 pm
Op, sorry for your situation. I wouldn’t charge dd a specific price like rent but if she’s offering to chip in let her give you her masser.
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Tue, Dec 01 2020, 12:24 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote: | Just to reiterate...we are not asking her to pay rent...this is something she offered to do. I am looking for the ideal amount so that she feels like she is being responsible and also to help with expenses.
Also, no one would ever give us a loan at this point. We have no collateral and I make almost enough to cover our bills. |
I would go with a percentage of her income, maybe 10-20%. In your situation it is so
Important for her to save up money to get married for herself.
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