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Is it possible to spoil a child with 10 siblings?
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FranticFrummie
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Fri, Jan 08 2021, 5:00 am
amother [ Honeydew ] wrote: | exactly this. spoiled has many definitions. mothers who are overwhelmed are more likely to give into tantrums....and don't set boundaries that kids crave....
it doesn't make the child feel anymore loved... |
Very wise words, especially the bolded!
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amother
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Fri, Jan 08 2021, 5:41 am
Yes, two of the families I carpool with are ka”h large families with very spoiled bratty kids. (Most of the large families I know aren’t like this though.) In these families the parents are insecure and give their kids whatever they demand, and allow them to talk with such chutzpah. I hate doing carpool with them, it’s a nightmare the way they fight with the other kids about seats and talk with horrible chutzpah and leitzanus. Many of the kids struggle socially because they don’t know how to be mentchlich. So yes OP it’s definitely possible, unfortunately. If parents give in to their kids and don’t teach proper behavior, that’s what happens.
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