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amother

Mon, Jul 26 2021, 8:26 am

Just made our first chasunah Chasdei Hashem! My two very close friends are making Sheva Brochos for us, should I give them gifts? Also what about Mesader Kiddushin ? Should we give him a gift or money?

egam

Mon, Jul 26 2021, 8:31 am

I’ve made plenty of sheva brochos, never once got a gift, no did I expect it.

We payed our Mesader Kiddushin.

amother

Ecru

Mon, Jul 26 2021, 8:33 am

Mazel tov! I've made many SB's and here's a sampling of the gifts I received,

Fancy chocolates
Nice tablecloth
Runner
Towel set
Vase
Napkin rings

amother

Mon, Jul 26 2021, 8:38 am

How much to pay to Mesader Kiddushin ?

amother

Lotus

Mon, Jul 26 2021, 9:30 am

Would give a gift and offer to make a sheva brachos for them when they need. If their kids are all married and you won't be able to reciprocate, I would get them an expensive gift now if you're able.

octopus

Mon, Jul 26 2021, 9:32 am

Is the sheva brachos their wedding gift?

s c

Mon, Jul 26 2021, 9:46 am

I gave gifts to express my appreciation for all the effort they put into making them for me. I bought expensive vases which I knew were to their tastes. But definitely something to say thank you. If in doubt just send flowers .

amother

Mon, Jul 26 2021, 10:15 am

octopus wrote:

Is the sheva brachos their wedding gift?

It was their wedding gift, but I am sure they spent way more on SB then if they just gave money - plus so much more effort.

amother

Moccasin

Mon, Jul 26 2021, 10:34 am

Paying the mesader Kiddushin?

It's an honour many dream of getting. They don't get paid where I live

essie14

Mon, Jul 26 2021, 9:02 pm

Everyone who made us sheva brachot, that was their wedding gift to us. Why would you give someone a gift for them giving you a gift?

amother

Iris

Mon, Jul 26 2021, 9:18 pm

amother [ OP ] wrote:

Depends on your circles. I'm chasidish and it's unheard of by us to give any gift to the person who makes a sheva brochos.

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