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amother




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Post Mon, Jul 26 2021, 8:26 am
Just made our first chasunah Chasdei Hashem! My two very close friends are making Sheva Brochos for us, should I give them gifts? Also what about Mesader Kiddushin ? Should we give him a gift or money?
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egam




 
 
 
 

Post Mon, Jul 26 2021, 8:31 am
I’ve made plenty of sheva brochos, never once got a gift, no did I expect it.

We payed our Mesader Kiddushin.
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amother




Ecru
 

Post Mon, Jul 26 2021, 8:33 am
Mazel tov! I've made many SB's and here's a sampling of the gifts I received,

Fancy chocolates
Nice tablecloth
Runner
Towel set
Vase
Napkin rings
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amother




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Post Mon, Jul 26 2021, 8:38 am
How much to pay to Mesader Kiddushin ?
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amother




Lotus
 

Post Mon, Jul 26 2021, 9:30 am
Would give a gift and offer to make a sheva brachos for them when they need. If their kids are all married and you won't be able to reciprocate, I would get them an expensive gift now if you're able.
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octopus




 
 
 
 

Post Mon, Jul 26 2021, 9:32 am
Is the sheva brachos their wedding gift?
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s c




 
 
 
 

Post Mon, Jul 26 2021, 9:46 am
I gave gifts to express my appreciation for all the effort they put into making them for me. I bought expensive vases which I knew were to their tastes. But definitely something to say thank you. If in doubt just send flowers .
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amother




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Post Mon, Jul 26 2021, 10:15 am
octopus wrote:
Is the sheva brachos their wedding gift?

It was their wedding gift, but I am sure they spent way more on SB then if they just gave money - plus so much more effort.
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amother




Moccasin
 

Post Mon, Jul 26 2021, 10:34 am
Paying the mesader Kiddushin?

It's an honour many dream of getting. They don't get paid where I live
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essie14




 
 
 
 

Post Mon, Jul 26 2021, 9:02 pm
Everyone who made us sheva brachot, that was their wedding gift to us. Why would you give someone a gift for them giving you a gift?
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amother




Iris
 

Post Mon, Jul 26 2021, 9:18 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
Just made our first chasunah Chasdei Hashem! My two very close friends are making Sheva Brochos for us, should I give them gifts? Also what about Mesader Kiddushin ? Should we give him a gift or money?


Depends on your circles. I'm chasidish and it's unheard of by us to give any gift to the person who makes a sheva brochos.
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