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amother
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 Sat, May 07 2022, 11:56 pm
| amother [ Azure ] wrote: | | Why did this get a hug 😂? |
Maybe someone just loves that you do that. 
Thank you all! I’m glad to see that many people are ok with the kids drinking in stemware.
Somehow I like the look of stemware a lot more than just a glass.
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amother
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Sun, May 08 2022, 12:19 am
My 3 yr old is using stemware.
But I think it depends on we’re they are in the family.
Probably kids 1-4 started at 10. But then the rest just started whenever they wanted.
Not all stemware is expensive.
My opinion is if it breaks it breaks…at least we have a beautiful and happy shabbos table. I’m not going to worry over $1-5.
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amother
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Sun, May 08 2022, 12:29 am
| amother [ Slateblue ] wrote: | My 3 yr old is using stemware.
But I think it depends on we’re they are in the family.
Probably kids 1-4 started at 10. But then the rest just started whenever they wanted.
Not all stemware is expensive.
My opinion is if it breaks it breaks…at least we have a beautiful and happy shabbos table. I’m not going to worry over $1-5. |
True, though my concern was more about the mess of broken glass than the money.
I see some on Amazon with good reviews about it being sturdy. Will get one of those.
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Iymnok
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Sun, May 08 2022, 10:24 am
All kids that can sit at the table use real dishes. Corelle until 5, glass cup at 3, stemware at bar/bat mitzvah. It’s more to do with how much we own rather than maturity.
On pesach everyone had stemware. The adults preferred the glasses.
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doodlesmom
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Sun, May 08 2022, 11:27 am
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While I allow my kids 3 or so and up to use the stemware, I usually prepare a small silver becher by their place. They’re thrilled about it, it doesn’t break easily and it’s just the right amount of drink, while still looking pretty on the table.
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shanie5
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Sun, May 08 2022, 5:59 pm
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Age 10 and up get stemware when we use it. I don't remember why we made that rule, but the kids felt very grown up when they finally turned 10. And now the grandkids are looking forward to the "priveledge".
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cupcake123
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Sun, May 08 2022, 6:52 pm
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Wow I'm surprised. All my kids get plastic. Maybe I'm not trusting them enough 🤷♀️
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Aurora
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Mon, May 09 2022, 8:47 pm
| amother [ Hosta ] wrote: | | Age 2? Wow!! My 2 year old was in a highchair today spilling and throwing things and making a mess. Can’t imagine giving him glass or crystal stemware |
It's at a point over 2 when I can trust that they will start to be responsible. Every kid is different.
I also used to take away the food and the kid out of the high chair once they started throwing. And, in fairness, I have (pu pu pu!) fairly easy kids.
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LK1
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Mon, May 09 2022, 8:51 pm
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I had stemware for years and when I got a new dishwasher they all started cracking. Now I just use regular glasses that are very nice and I don't have the headache of cracking, buying...
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