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amother
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 Mon, Sep 25 2023, 11:49 pm
I've already gone through many big ticket challenges and crisis in life!
We BH have several children after going through PIF, and then SIF.
I have children with the ADHD, ASD, medical conditions, Down syndrome, learning disabilities.
SB challenges, yet working on it and am at a good place.
I make sure to dress well and look good (even though I'm not skinny at all), I work to be happy and see the good in everything.
I'm mentioning some of my challenges to show you that I can relate to many of your challenges, and know where you're coming from.
There's more that do not feel comfortable mentioning publicly (like cycle issues, IF diagnosis).
- AMA!
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amother
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Mon, Sep 25 2023, 11:52 pm
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Were you created to be the ultimate imamother?
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Mon, Sep 25 2023, 11:53 pm
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What's ur biggest regret?
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Mon, Sep 25 2023, 11:54 pm
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Is it an effort to smile or its your reaction to the outside world?
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amother
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Mon, Sep 25 2023, 11:57 pm
Hmmm.... good question.
Gotta think.
Responding immediately, then regretting my words.
The way I responded to people when I felt hurt by them, I could be blunt when I feel hurt. I might have come across as intimidating.
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amother
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Mon, Sep 25 2023, 11:59 pm
| amother Lightblue wrote: | | Is it an effort to smile or its your reaction to the outside world? |
Reaction. I am a social bug and go out to socialize when I feel down. I thrive in social settings.
If I feel judged or people who seem to be inferior, I shy away.
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Mon, Sep 25 2023, 11:59 pm
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amother
NeonGreen
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Tue, Sep 26 2023, 12:01 am
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How long ago were you cheated on? And what made you stay married (if you did)
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amother
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Tue, Sep 26 2023, 12:02 am
Nothing to do with me, as I did my utmost to do my best as a wife.
He worked with females and one ran after him.
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amother
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Tue, Sep 26 2023, 12:04 am
| amother NeonGreen wrote: | | How long ago were you cheated on? And what made you stay married (if you did) |
Over 10 years ago.
I wasn't aware for a while. When I found out about it, I gave him an ultimatum.
Make a 360° turnaround or else. Bh he did make the 100% turnaround. We never looked back.
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amother
Lightblue
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Tue, Sep 26 2023, 12:28 am
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Was pif or sif more difficult?
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amother
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Tue, Sep 26 2023, 12:38 am
Wow, OP, I'm in awe of you!
If you had to do it all over again, and you had a choice to skip one challenge, which one would it be? In other words, what was your biggest challenge?
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amother
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Tue, Sep 26 2023, 1:01 am
| amother Lightcyan wrote: | Wow, OP, I'm in awe of you!
If you had to do it all over again, and you had a choice to skip one challenge, which one would it be? In other words, what was your biggest challenge? |
Financial challenge is the worst for me.
Though money can't fix all problems, the Lack of money is creating so many issues.
The lack of money creates tremendous stress. It affects SB in a big way. A bigger house wouldve made our life easier, we can't afford to go on vacation ever, money talks and could've helped in many ways- get our son into a good yeshiva, pay for necessities, pay for therapy and treatments and much more. Not being able to afford makes life extremely challenging above all. Though I try to look decent, Not purchasing new updated clothing effects my self image.
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amother
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Tue, Sep 26 2023, 1:05 am
Though usually PIF is much more challenging, in our case, SIF was harder. I realized that I have issues immediately and went for Fertility treatments right after my wedding, I concieved at 18 months so it didn't seem very odd to the outside world.
SIF took longer and needed bigger treatment, each child was a journey.
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Tue, Sep 26 2023, 2:22 am
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What made u choose to stay with your husband?
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Tue, Sep 26 2023, 2:41 am
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Why are you choosing to do an AMA?
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Tue, Sep 26 2023, 4:57 am
| amother OP wrote: | Over 10 years ago.
I wasn't aware for a while. When I found out about it, I gave him an ultimatum.
Make a 360° turnaround or else. Bh he did make the 100% turnaround. We never looked back. |
Do you fully trust him now?
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amother
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Tue, Sep 26 2023, 5:26 am
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Does your husband still work with women, specifically the woman he cheated with?
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Tue, Sep 26 2023, 6:02 am
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