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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 10:36 am
Disclaimer: I’m not proud of it. I should work on myself more.
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Sand
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 10:38 am
Then what are you doing hanging out here😂😂😂
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amother
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 10:50 am
amother Sand wrote: | Then what are you doing hanging out here😂😂😂 |
Good question. I enjoy so many posts and get annoyed at so many others.
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Floralwhite
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 10:57 am
Why are you like that?
(Here to annoy you )
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amother
Mocha
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 11:26 am
Op, I'm with you on this!
My biggest pet peeve is when people try to use anecdotal evidence.
Example: I took the vaccine and had side effects and this proves the vaccine is dangerous.
Example: I took the vaccine and didn't have side effects and this proves the vaccine is safe.
Arrrrg. Just Arrrrg.
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amother
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 11:28 am
You’re not annoying me.
I’m like that because I bH am a very sensible person by nature and simply need to work on my middos to handle those who are not.
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amother
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 11:37 am
amother Mocha wrote: | Op, I'm with you on this!
My biggest pet peeve is when people try to use anecdotal evidence.
Example: I took the vaccine and had side effects and this proves the vaccine is dangerous.
Example: I took the vaccine and didn't have side effects and this proves the vaccine is safe.
Arrrrg. Just Arrrrg. |
That’s one big pet peeve.
Another would be obviously lying and thinking others don’t catch on.
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oneofakind
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 11:57 am
I'm with you.
Working on not getting annoyed at family members who complain or suffer and they really did it to themselves because they don't use common sense.
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amother
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 12:00 pm
oneofakind wrote: | I'm with you.
Working on not getting annoyed at family members who complain or suffer and they really did it to themselves because they don't use common sense. |
Maybe they don’t have any? I think those who have would automatically use, no?
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Cheiny
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 1:40 pm
amother OP wrote: | Maybe they don’t have any? I think those who have would automatically use, no? |
A big eye opener for me was when I was younger, and realized that just because someone has a college degree or high career position, does not mean they have any common sense…
So interesting that someone can be very book smart but doesn’t have an ounce of common sense.
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amother
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 1:44 pm
Cheiny wrote: | A big eye opener for me was when I was younger, and realized that just because someone has a college degree or high career position, does not mean they have any common sense…
So interesting that someone can be very book smart but doesn’t have an ounce of common sense. |
Fully agree.
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crystal
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 3:42 pm
Is it your own... Or is it a gift from Hashem??? It helps me when I remember that it's really not my credit, and I try to shift to thanking Hashem for giving me the gifts of... (whatever it is that's annoying me that the other person doesn't have etc)
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amother
Sapphire
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 3:48 pm
your common sense ≠ my common sense
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amother
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 5:41 pm
crystal wrote: | Is it your own... Or is it a gift from Hashem??? It helps me when I remember that it's really not my credit, and I try to shift to thanking Hashem for giving me the gifts of... (whatever it is that's annoying me that the other person doesn't have etc) |
Definitely a gift.
I’m also very sensitive to good middos and work hard on myself not to get annoyed (see the disclaimer in op) or at least not show that I’m getting annoyed, but yea, so far I’m still human.
But thanks for the reminder.
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amother
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 5:42 pm
True, that’s for quality. But I’m talking about quantity.
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English3
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 5:45 pm
Do you mean in communicating or in practical skills. I have more seichel when it comes to doing things. For example doing things more geshikt or in away that will be faster.
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amother
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 5:48 pm
English3 wrote: | Do you mean in communicating or in practical skills. I have more seichel when it comes to doing things. For example doing things more geshikt or in away that will be faster. |
Mostly relationships and communication.
I wouldn’t get annoyed by other people’s lack of practical skills unless they’d be my housekeeper.
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amother
Heather
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 5:51 pm
What are you doing on the internet, then, OP?
It's such a brutal common sense vacuum.
I grew up before the internet era.
Going on it has taught me for neaely 30 years straight how amazingly brainless humans can be.
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Teal
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 5:52 pm
Do you ever do or say something that lacks common sense?
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English3
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Thu, Oct 05 2023, 5:52 pm
amother OP wrote: | Mostly relationships and communication.
I wouldn’t get annoyed by other people’s lack of practical skills unless they’d be my housekeeper. |
lol I do bc I work with other people and it drives me nuts. I am constantly telling my workmate how to do things bc I am way more practical. Ex I ask her to snip tiny pieces if paper. she snips a strip and then cuts squares versus I showed her take all the strips together and cut them together.
this is simple and obvious for most people but I constantly find that when I tell people how I do things they are like, wow such an amazing idea.
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