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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 8:28 pm
last night .my sister said we are now orphans my mother passed away of lung cancer around chanukah time
my chabad is moving and is closed down the school is closed so I have no where to announce it but here , he will be burried in isreal if things run ok he is now in florida no one is going to the funeral
unless some relatives will show up from isreal im so sad his name was pesachya pesach ben menachem mendel
I will sit shiva alone again my siblings live out of state
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singleagain
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 8:36 pm
Hamokam yenachem. It's so hard right now to sit Shiva. My mom just had to sit for her sister, and it was heartbreaking to see her alone. Maybe you can at least zoom with family or set up zoom times for Shiva visits
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amother
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 8:52 pm
my family is not that close if im lucky someone will call me
thanks
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daagahminayin
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 8:57 pm
I’m so sorry for your loss! Baruch Dayan HaEmes.
Hamakom yenachem eschem bsoch shaar avlei Tzion vYerushalayim.
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 8:59 pm
המקום ינחם אתכם בתוך שאר אבלי ציון וירושלים
I’m so sorry for your loss 😥
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amother
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 9:03 pm
Baruch Dayan Emet. I am so sorry for your loss
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amother
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 9:07 pm
Hamakom yinachem eschem b'soch shaar aveilei tzion v'yerushalayim.
His neshama should have an aliya 💙
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Frumwithallergies
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 9:18 pm
Baruch Dayan Haemes.
המקום ירחם אתכם בתוך שאר אבלי ציון וירושלים
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littleprincess
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 9:34 pm
I'm so sorry for your loss . Hashem should give u lots of strength to go through this dificult time
Is there any organisation u can reach out to for food for the week ? Maybe some crafts for your kids ?
Mom my sat shiva before yom tov and we all live far from her so we arranged that food should he delivered to her
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hinenimuchan
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 9:34 pm
Baruch dayan emet. Your father is coming to his original home, and he won't be alone. He is closer than ever to Hashem and to those who predeceased him. And he must know that you and your siblings are with him in spirit and would physically accompany him if you could.
As for how to make the shiva as comforting as possible, I have seen people sharing contact information in their circles so that they literally receive shiva calls by phone/computer. Depending upon your technology policy, E-mail, Zoom meetings and messaging applications may also be helpful. I recommend that you figure out how to contact a few key people from your Chabad, school and/or neighborhood to inform them of your situation and ask them to encourage others to reach out to you.
Try to spend time during shiva sharing comforting memories with your siblings and other relatives, and supporting each other. If it's still quieter than you'd like, maybe share some memories/tributes about your father here on Imamother. I am sure that people will read them, relate to them and maybe learn from them, and you will connect with them that way.
May your father's neshama have an aliyah. And may you not have further sorrow.
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amother
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 9:48 pm
thank you for youre kind words
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hinenimuchan
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 9:50 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote: | my family is not that close if im lucky someone will call me
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Don't wait for a call! Take the initiative to contact any or all of them!
At worst, you will have the zchut of letting someone know you care. At best, your gesture and/or your common loss/challenging situation may bind your family a little closer.
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ra_mom
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 10:06 pm
Baruch Dayon HaEmes.
I am so sorry for your loss. May your father's Neshama have an Aliyah and may he be a Meilitz Yashor for you and your family. Hamakom Yinachem Es'chem B'soch Sha'ar Aveilei Tzion V'yerushalayim.
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 10:54 pm
המקום ינחם אתכם בתוך שאר אבלי ציון וירושלים
May he be a מליץ יושר for you and all of כלל ישראל
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gilamom
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 11:19 pm
Oy I'm so sorry for your loss
המקום ינחם אתכם בתוך שאר אבלי ציון וירושלים
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mfb
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Thu, Apr 16 2020, 11:36 pm
So sorry for your loss. Hamakom yenachem eschem besoch shear evlei tzion v’yerushalayim.
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mlc
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Fri, Apr 17 2020, 12:24 am
I am so sorry to read this. Your loss is all of our loss as well. *hugs*
המקום ינחם אתכם בתוך שאר אבלי ציון וירושלים
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amother
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Fri, Apr 17 2020, 12:27 am
Baruch Dayan Haemes. I am so sorry for your loss and your pain. Sitting shiva in these times is really difficult without the comfort of visitors and being together with other mourners.
המקום ירחם אתכם בתוך שאר אבלי ציון וירושלים
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goldstarbook
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Fri, Apr 17 2020, 12:40 am
So sorry for your loss. We will be your family.
Will say his name by candle lighting, hoping to bring you some solace and light.
המקום ינחם אתכם בתוך שאר אבלי ציון וירושלים.
I am in Israel. When he does get buried hete, please let us know and perhaps we can go.
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amother
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Fri, Apr 17 2020, 12:42 am
המקום ירחם אתכם בתוך שאר אבלי ציון וירושלים
I hope this isn’t insensitive but it’s so interesting how he has 2 names sounding like pesach and he passed away on Pesach.
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