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Do you ever scream at home?
Yes very often  
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Yes but seldom  
 47%  [ 53 ]
Never ever  
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amother
Stoneblue


 

Post Thu, Oct 05 2023, 12:17 pm
I used to get angry very quickly and probably screamed more than I should have. I have been working on myself over the years and think I’m much, much better. When a friend of my daughters (late teens) came, I was extremely insulted when she said I yell a lot. She comes from a home that she’s the youngest and her parents work full time, they’re barely home.
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Cheiny




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 05 2023, 12:19 pm
amother OP wrote:
I’m wondering if such a thing exists that a wife and mother should never lose it? Why is it so mortifying when others hear? Don’t we all do the same behind closed doors? Hopefully not often but we all have our moments. Or am I wrong?


No one wants their dirty laundry aired in front of others, whether it’s common or not.
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Cheiny




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 05 2023, 12:20 pm
amother Ecru wrote:
I'm a screamer bas screamer [not proud]
and I just want to say this

Adults can learn how to speak appropriately in all situations
if they didnt learn yet - they should start now

there really is no excuse for not eradicating or at least minimizing screaming

screaming is an inacceptable form of communication unless there is immediate danger


It definitely can be controlled if we choose to control it.

For instance would someone not be able to control themselves from doing the same screaming, if they knew their boss or their Rov was in the room?
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watergirl




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 05 2023, 12:31 pm
My father is a screamer. My mom was one too. I scream sometimes and BH I've gotten SO MUCH BETTER over the years with a lot of work.

My dad loves to say that his mother never screamed. His sister says what she did was worse than screaming. She'd talk to you in a honey sweet voice, like Michelle Duggar and Deloris Umbridge. I'd much rather the screaming.
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amother
Chocolate


 

Post Thu, Oct 05 2023, 5:27 pm
amother Orange wrote:
Married over two decades and never screamed at dh and he’s definitely NOT a tzaddik and does NOT treat me well. I’ve said some hurtful things to him (which I’m not proud of) but never in a raised tone of voice
How? Pls teach me
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amother
Zinnia


 

Post Thu, Oct 05 2023, 5:28 pm
I never yelled at my husband but I do yell at my kids especially my kid with adhd behaviors

Starting parental counseling soon to address that
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