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amother
Lemon
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Sun, Dec 24 2023, 8:55 pm
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amother
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Sun, Dec 24 2023, 9:19 pm
amother Cantaloupe wrote: | My mother always said this to me
It hurt me so so much I can't explain
I felt extremely angry and upset she always said such things to me
It created in me a big urge to like get back later in life |
What did you feel like then you wanted her to do differently? And what do you think about that now?
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BrisketBoss
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Sun, Dec 24 2023, 9:47 pm
amother Sage wrote: | She's saying everyone does things the way they think are best. why would it bother you? |
It's the same kind of response as 'because I said so.' It makes sense that it would leave a child feeling frustrated and unheard.
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amother
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Sun, Dec 24 2023, 10:24 pm
Tell her that one day she will be a great parent! But for the time being, you are her mother and she will just have to put up with you. Also, if the house is a mess, have her help you clean it, etc. She can use her skills to help with whatever is bothering her instead of just complaining about it.
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tehilap
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Thu, Jan 25 2024, 9:19 am
Hi all sorry for restarting this thread, just having a hard week with my daghter can use some chizuk, just narmal teanage stuff … th e house is a mess theres no food I cant my clothes everything is moomies fuilt and so on (I love her so much she is the most amazing talented girl just having a hard weak)
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amother
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Thu, Jan 25 2024, 9:24 am
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Ur not anonymous there.
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