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amother
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Post Wed, Feb 07 2024, 9:09 pm
Someone reached out asking if I have time to talk today. I said sure, around 9 if that’s good for you? She responded yes. Now who calls who?
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Einikel




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Feb 07 2024, 9:09 pm
I would think the one who initiated
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amother
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Post Wed, Feb 07 2024, 9:11 pm
So should I just wait? Or at some point should I call her?
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cheese cake




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Feb 07 2024, 9:12 pm
Einikel wrote:
I would think the one who initiated


Yes this. If she reached out to find out what time works for you then it’s on her to call you.
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amother
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Post Wed, Feb 07 2024, 9:13 pm
amother OP wrote:
So should I just wait? Or at some point should I call her?


Don’t put your life on hold waiting. If she doesn’t call after a half hour then send her a text asking if she’s still planning to call.
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amother
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Post Wed, Feb 07 2024, 9:30 pm
I would just call. Why wait? It's not your responsibility to wait for her if you can call her. It may not be your responsibility to call her, but you don't have to wait for her to call you either. Whatever is more convenient for you is fine.
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amother
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Post Wed, Feb 07 2024, 9:33 pm
I don’t know her.
The only thing I know is that she asked before calling me so maybe she’s the type who wouldn’t appreciate if I just called her? I’m probably way overthinking this.
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amother
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Post Wed, Feb 07 2024, 9:34 pm
Being that she probably wants something from you she should be calling you.
You can call her if you feel like it but the obligation isn't in you. If she needs you she knows where to reach you.
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happy7




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Feb 07 2024, 10:12 pm
I did this with two people today. I contacted them at the time they told me they were available. I wanted something from them.
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amother
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Post Wed, Feb 07 2024, 10:14 pm
Next time I would just clarify in the original text "call me then"
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zaq




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Feb 07 2024, 10:21 pm
amother NeonOrange wrote:
Being that she probably wants something from you she should be calling you.
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Bingo.
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