Depp VS Heard continued

number

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 3:52 pm

amother [ Catmint ] wrote:

You're a pro depp fan even before trial has started and none of the horrific evidence heard had made you think that amber was ever abused.

No I was not a Depp fan. I didn’t even know who he was. As they say, you’re entitled to your own opinions, but not your own facts.

Here is a picture of the “bruise kit” Amber Heard used to fake a bruise on her cheek. This is a picture Heard herself took to submit as evidence. If you look at the colors, they match the colors MUAs use to create bruises, not to cover them.

I will back actual abuse victims. But liars need to be exposed.

amother

Currant

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 3:57 pm

amother [ Catmint ] wrote:

Just pray to one above that none of your kids should ever be abused by their spouse and no one will believe that they were the victim.
You wording wouldnt have been this way had you gone through the hell of being a victim

I'll stop engaging or responding to your posts as I'm going in circles and it's not worth my effort.

You're a pro depp fan even before trial has started and none of the horrific evidence heard had made you think that amber was ever abused.

Would you also side the spouse of an ima on this site had they shown you bruised faces or explicit messages??

Wow! This is totally uncalled for!

number

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 3:59 pm

amother [ Currant ] wrote:

Wow! This is totally uncalled for!

I feel sorry for her that she really believes Heard, and so from her perspective the jury is siding with the abuser and against the victim. That has to be a painful place to be. Thankfully the facts show otherwise and justice was, in fact, served and the real abuser punished.

NotInNJMommy

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:12 pm

number wrote:

I am not currant, and this response is just a passive aggressive equivalent to hers imho.

NotInNJMommy

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:14 pm

amother [ Lavender ] wrote:

I don’t think it’s fair to make this so personal. And personally attack another ima. Especially the only one brave enough to attach her name to her posts.

Would you attack the other abused women on here who believe heard is behaving like their abusers and find her behavior troubling?

Keep in mind, particularly given the risks of both being sued for defamation and ordered to pay money they probably don't have (among other things, seemingly more likely now due to this recent ruling--whether one thinks the ruling was correct or not), on top of just being accused of LH or having their children's shidduchim at risk, victims discussing their lives as victims may reasonably choose to be anonymous.

number

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:16 pm

NotInNJMommy wrote:

I am not currant, and this response is just a passive aggressive equivalent to hers imho.

I’m not sure what you mean? Currant said Catmint was out of line and I said I agreed with her, but also I understand why Catmint was out of line. Why are you coming in to call me passive aggressive? And you’re saying I’m passive aggressive along with someone else. Who? Catmint was outright aggressive.

Im not sure why you feel the need to police my posts anyway.

amother

Lavender

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:16 pm

NotInNJMommy wrote:

I understand 100%. I’m anonymous. Smile

I was just bothered at the very personal attack.

(And sorry if I’m also policing.
Lines like this bother me so much. No one should ever talk like this.
“ Just pray to one above that none of your kids should ever be abused by their spouse and no one will believe that they were the victim. ”)

NotInNJMommy

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:18 pm

number wrote:

I misspoke, and cited the wrong rando color...

I meant Catmint...I'm neither and I found your response/reaction to catmint to be just a passive aggressive version of the same thing....and similarly wrong.

number

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:18 pm

amother [ Lavender ] wrote:

I appreciate your sticking up for me. This thread has taken a turn that is frankly troubling. Specially now that not n j mommy has taken it upon herself to label me passive aggressive. That’s disturbing.

number

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:18 pm

NotInNJMommy wrote:

It was sincere, not passive aggressive. And if you found her just as wrong then you ought to call her out as well.

amother

Lavender

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:21 pm

number wrote:

The line I quoted later bothered me too deeply to pass over. No one should ever say that to another women on here.

NotInNJMommy

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:21 pm

number wrote:

It was sincere, not passive aggressive. And if you found her just as wrong then you ought to call her out as well.

Speaking as if someone isn't there and saying how you "pity them" is in my book passive aggressive. Maybe someone would label it something else. It's in the levush of being more polite, but to me, it's actually just as aggressive....just...more passive....so, passive aggressive.

I'm sure catmint was sincere too and hopes you never actually know what it is to be an abuse victim.

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amother

Catmint

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:21 pm

NotInNJMommy wrote:

Thank you notnjmommy for sticking up for me-catmint.

There is a reason why other imas on this thread that side with amber have stopped posting and responding to depp fans on this thread

number

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:21 pm

amother [ Lavender ] wrote:

I understand 100%. I’m anonymous. Smile

I’ll be honest, I’m a little shaken up. I made a post trying to rationalize her words and now I’m being labeled passive aggressive. This thread has turned unsafe.

amother

Currant

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:22 pm

NotInNJMommy wrote:

I am not currant, and this response is just a passive aggressive equivalent to hers imho.

I am currant LOL

I'm finding your posts very disturbing. It's not the first time on this thread that your siding with someone that is being rude to a poster.

number

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:22 pm

NotInNJMommy wrote:

So you’re ok with catmints post and not mine … interesting.

NotInNJMommy

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:22 pm

number wrote:

I’ll be honest, I’m a little shaken up. I made a post trying to rationalize her words and now I’m being labeled passive aggressive. This thread has turned unsafe.

FYI I did not label you. I expressed an opinion on the words you chose in your response.

amother

Currant

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:23 pm

[quote="number"]So you’re ok with catmints post and not mine … interesting.[/quote]

Interesting indeed......

number

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:23 pm

NotInNJMommy wrote:

FYI I did not label you. I expressed an opinion on the words you chose in your response.

Did you have something else to contribute to the thread, other than unsolicited opinions on my word choice?

NotInNJMommy

Thu, Jun 02 2022, 4:23 pm

number wrote:

So you’re ok with catmints post and not mine … interesting.

Please re read what I wrote. I actually said both can be viewed as wrong.

Just the type of language in your post is in the levush of being more "polite" when it might actually be just as impolite if not more so.