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amother
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 9:47 pm
My husband brings in the mail and he throws all tznius letters away before I can see them because he knows what they do to my stress levels
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amother
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 9:49 pm
So as a Zchus for her tragedies she’s harassing people.
Maybe she should take on her own kabalos instead.
The nerve.
(I don’t believe that the content is real but whatever.)
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amother
Watermelon
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 9:52 pm
A common thread between all tznius harassment letters-
All anonymous
All poorly written
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seltzermom
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 10:05 pm
And so much easier than working on yourself.
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amother
Amaranthus
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 10:14 pm
How do they mail anonymously without a return address ?
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amother
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 10:20 pm
So apparently it is targeted because my friends near me who are more Lakewood type didn't get it and my friend who doesn't wear a Shaitel didn't get it but only me and my friends who are the type got it.
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amother
Orchid
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 10:21 pm
Huh? You never have to mail things with a return address. But most probably it was put into the mail box in a blank envelope. Thats how we get tzedaka envelopes. No name to or from. Just an envelope with content.
What an awfully written letter. And thats from a woman? Sure.
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amother
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 10:33 pm
amother OP wrote: | So apparently it is targeted because my friends near me who are more Lakewood type didn't get it and my friend who doesn't wear a Shaitel didn't get it but only me and my friends who are the type got it. |
Well since the letter writer gives permission to copy and send to whoever they want, maybe you have a friend or neighbor who thinks you need to see it. Doesn’t necessarily need to be targeted from the original letter writer.
I live in Lakewood too. I don’t believe I’ve ever gotten such a letter. I don’t tend to open mass mailings though.
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amother
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 10:35 pm
amother Watermelon wrote: | A common thread between all tznius harassment letters-
All anonymous
All poorly written |
Also, all so obviously made up. Lol.
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amother
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 10:43 pm
I don’t find it to be “lol” at all.
It’s pure harassment and people who do this should be prosecuted.
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amother
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 10:49 pm
amother Azure wrote: | I don’t find it to be “lol” at all.
It’s pure harassment and people who do this should be prosecuted. |
You are right. I stand corrected.
I guess it only made me laugh because it's written so poorly and is so obviously phony, I can't imagine anyone over the age of maybe 12 take it as a serious letter. Plus, the whiteout with the handwritten correction...looks like someone is secretly writing it in their parents' basement on an ancient typewriter or something...in a hurry so they don't get "caught"
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Crookshanks
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 10:51 pm
So trashy. Maybe this makes me a bad person, but I can't handle any lessons or mussar when the spelling and grammar is not up to par. Some people can just take out the content; I can't do that.
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amother
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 10:51 pm
amother Royalblue wrote: | Well since the letter writer gives permission to copy and send to whoever they want, maybe you have a friend or neighbor who thinks you need to see it. Doesn’t necessarily need to be targeted from the original letter writer.
I live in Lakewood too. I don’t believe I’ve ever gotten such a letter. I don’t tend to open mass mailings though. |
I meant that it's targeted from someone who knows me personally who copied it. Never thought it was the original person.
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amother
Dodgerblue
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Sat, Oct 01 2022, 11:24 pm
amother OP wrote: | So apparently it is targeted because my friends near me who are more Lakewood type didn't get it and my friend who doesn't wear a Shaitel didn't get it but only me and my friends who are the type got it. | Ewwww. Something is really off about the person who sent it to you.
Maybe you and your husband should adopt my husbands minhag regarding the mail.
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Growing
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Sun, Oct 02 2022, 1:12 am
I cant open the image
what's the content of the letter?
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amother
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Wed, Oct 19 2022, 12:30 pm
amother Watermelon wrote: | A common thread between all tznius harassment letters-
All anonymous
All poorly written |
Poorly written because written by a yeshivish man….
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Chayalle
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Wed, Oct 19 2022, 12:33 pm
I would never pay attention to an anonymous letter like that. I would throw it out before reading it. People really read thru such letters?
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Rappel
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Wed, Oct 19 2022, 12:39 pm
That's it then, OP.
You have no choice now.
You need to whip off that lace top, and then knock on every door until you find that writer and thank her -- for the sake of tsniyut, of course.
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