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aisheschayil98
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 10:03 am
Did your mother or mother in law come shave u the day after wedding?
Do you shave four days before the mikvah?
Do you grow out during pregnancy if not how often?
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Tiye
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 10:07 am
aisheschayil98 wrote: | Did your mother or mother in law come shave u the day after wedding?
Do you shave four days before the mikvah?
Do you grow out during pregnancy if not how often? |
No they didn't I did it because I wanted to,
Yes,
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Super2020
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:31 am
Which shaver do use? I tried two already and not liking either.
Also, how do you make sure you get all around the head. I’m forever missing spots!
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yellowroses
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:33 am
Ok, as a chassidish woman that does not shave, why? What is the reason for shaving? I’ve heard many things but nothing that made sense.
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Tiye
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:37 am
Super2020 wrote: | Which shaver do use? I tried two already and not liking either.
Also, how do you make sure you get all around the head. I’m forever missing spots! | a whal. Shaver ,I ask my dh if they its clean shaven.
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Blessing1
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:39 am
aisheschayil98 wrote: | Did your mother or mother in law come shave u the day after wedding?
Do you shave four days before the mikvah?
Do you grow out during pregnancy if not how often? |
This isn't a thing. It's a myth that non chassidish people believe. I don't know how this myth came about.
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Tiye
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:40 am
yellowroses wrote: | Ok, as a chassidish woman that does not shave, why? What is the reason for shaving? I’ve heard many things but nothing that made sense. | it brings more kedishah to the house.
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yellowroses
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:41 am
Tiye wrote: | it brings more kedishah to the house. |
How so?
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cb0
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:44 am
yellowroses wrote: | Ok, as a chassidish woman that does not shave, why? What is the reason for shaving? I’ve heard many things but nothing that made sense. |
Mechitza.
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Tiye
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:45 am
because hair of a married woman is Erva.
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Itsallfromhim
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:47 am
Tiye wrote: | because hair of a married woman is Erva. |
And so is various body parts that we cover and uncover only in the holiest of places and times.
I’ve yet to meet a woman who shaves and knows why she does it with conviction.
Aside mesorah - which holds weight but the question is how the mesorah came to be
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Tiye
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:51 am
justayiddena wrote: | And so is various body parts that we cover and uncover only in the holiest of places and times.
I’ve yet to meet a woman who shaves and knows why she does it with conviction.
Aside mesorah - which holds weight but the question is how the mesorah came to be | true but hair is the most powerful.
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ohmygosh
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 12:14 pm
Tiye wrote: | it brings more kedishah to the house. |
The source of bringing more kedusha to the house is to always have your hair covered. Not to shave it.
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aisheschayil98
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 12:27 pm
Blessing1 wrote: | This isn't a thing. It's a myth that non chassidish people believe. I don't know how this myth came about. |
No it’s not a myth, maybe it’s unspoken about. my husband and I come from chassidish backgrounds. As teens we went OTD/at risk. And now we settled into heimish modern lifestyle with a chassidish flavor.
I know enough people on all sides of the coin to tell you it’s a very legit thing.
My mother in law shaved my sister in laws as a side point. Friend of mine had her mom shave her etc… list goes on and on.
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Mocha
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 12:28 pm
Blessing1 wrote: | This isn't a thing. It's a myth that non chassidish people believe. I don't know how this myth came about. |
Not quite:) my mother came to my house the morning after my wedding to shave me. I would never be able to do it alone
As to where the minhag comes from, it’s mesorah that most chasidisha women don’t mind following. I personally love shaving and would never grow in my hair. So much easier neater, cleaner etc.
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icebreaker
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 12:42 pm
Do you shave bald? Or is it just cutting it really, really short?
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tweety1
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Fri, Oct 06 2023, 1:09 pm
aisheschayil98 wrote: | No it’s not a myth, maybe it’s unspoken about. my husband and I come from chassidish backgrounds. As teens we went OTD/at risk. And now we settled into heimish modern lifestyle with a chassidish flavor.
I know enough people on all sides of the coin to tell you it’s a very legit thing.
My mother in law shaved my sister in laws as a side point. Friend of mine had her mom shave her etc… list goes on and on. |
Mother yes mother in law not.
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