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amother
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Wed, Nov 07 2012, 1:28 pm
So thank God, my DH was given a raise in salary for this year.
What can I do to show him how proud I am of him? I kind of blew it when he told me about it last night. I don't think he was happy with my response, and I already apologized for how I reacted and told him how proud I am, etc.
I was already thinking of card.... but what else?
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MimiMommy
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Wed, Nov 07 2012, 1:33 pm
How did you respond?
Maybe just a cake or a new tie? Men don't usually like when women "overreact", in their opinion.
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amother
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Wed, Nov 07 2012, 1:43 pm
MimiMommy wrote: | How did you respond?
Maybe just a cake or a new tie? Men don't usually like when women "overreact", in their opinion. |
We had known he would be getting a significant raise, so we were expecting it. It was not as significant as originally planned. Yes, I am thrilled to be getting any more money and I am very proud of him because I KNOW he is very dedicated and works very hard. However, that said, after the initial excitement - I immediately said something like 'So, I still have to work full time?' Or something along those lines... Then started to talking about my bad work situation. Yes, I suck. I would LOVE to make up for my reaction somehow.
Maybe I'll bake him some cookies or something. I don't usually bake and he loves homemade baked goods.
Thanks for the suggestion.
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MimiMommy
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Wed, Nov 07 2012, 1:46 pm
Oh, I totally I understand your reaction - I would have said the same thing, and have in different situations, then wish I could take it back! Yeah, probably something homemade would be best. Or something he can use/wear at work.
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Hashemlovesme
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Wed, Nov 07 2012, 1:46 pm
ANYTHING is good when it comes with a sincere note
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