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amother
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 Sun, May 28 2023, 8:18 pm
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OP did everything work out ok?
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Cheiny
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Sun, May 28 2023, 8:27 pm
| amother OP wrote: | I have an older single never married guy by me that was supposed to have left.
He is a very nice intelligent person but a typical bachelor and doesn’t get some social cues.
He had plans that fell through and is not leaving. The whole day he kept telling me he is getting sick and can’t drive home.
What do I do? My family is supposed to go to my daughter for a bbq and this guy is sleeping on my couch.
He is in no rush to leave. I feel bad for him because everyone he is trying to get in touch with has plans with family and he has no one.
Help what should I do? I need to leave soon and he is fast asleep. |
With people who don’t get normal social cues, you have to be blunt. Enabling him will just make him continue behaving this way in the future.
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amother
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Sun, May 28 2023, 9:26 pm
I was 45 min late.
I finally told him I am leaving and take drinks and food but I need to leave.
He started talking but I told him another time and just left
Now I remember the last time he came 5 yrs ago for the last days of pesach right after havdalah he set up a movie for us to watch when I needed to put my dishes away and was so tired from a challenging pesach and then also he stayed until the next day and just wasn't leaving.
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amother
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Sun, May 28 2023, 9:32 pm
| amother OP wrote: | He is such a gentle and kind and caring person but a bit needy. He is a frum guy but wanted me to feel his forehead to see if he has a fever.
He is in such a deep sleep I can’t wake him. I need to leave in an hour. |
We were nice to someone like this and got into issues. Needed police to get him out.
Do what you need to do and if he isn't understanding, force him out. You never know
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