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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 4:41 pm
Last week, someone wrote in a letter to the Monsey view that she see's strangers & passersby entering homes under construction to see the house, and how wrong that is and it's not allowed.
This week, someone wrote back a letter saying that yes, she goes in to homes under construction because IT'S THE ONLY CHANCE SHE GETS TO SEE THE HOUSE because once the new neighbors move in, she won't get to see the house anymore!!!
I'm so dumbfounded and flabbergasted over this, and hoping that it's a joke. I'm speechless!
Do people really do this????
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cnc
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 4:42 pm
I didn’t read it but I hope it’s satire .
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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 4:43 pm
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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 4:46 pm
Omg it’s my pet peeve. We put on combination locks as soon as we had doors on because ppl are absolute yentas and creeps.
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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 4:47 pm
I've done it but I'd never ever publicize it!
I'm talking about new construction with no owner yet, not my neighbors addition
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Amarante
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 4:47 pm
It would be up to the construction people to limit entry and frankly I am surprised that a GC is letting people on a construction site for liability purposes.
However, the reality is that people essentially do this all the time when the go to Open Houses of homes - especially when they go to their neighbors.
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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 4:48 pm
I gre up doing it -
Whether it was a multi million dollar mansion - new build or just a run of the mill expensive home.
As an adult?
Nope I haven't done it.
The adults I was raised with definitely still do it.
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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 4:49 pm
Amarante wrote: | It would be up to the construction people to limit entry and frankly I am surprised that a GC is letting people on a construction site for liability purposes.
However, the reality is that people essentially do this all the time when the go to Open Houses of homes - especially when they go to their neighbors. |
Except an open house is literally an invitation. For liability and privacy reasons it’s awful to walk into homes under construction.
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Amarante
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 4:51 pm
amother Coral wrote: | Except an open house is literally an invitation. For liability and privacy reasons it’s awful to walk into homes under construction. |
I'm not condoning the practice - merely stating that it is up to the Construction Crew or GC to bar people from entering and I am shocked that they allow people to do so - simply from their liability potential if someone trips over a piece of wood or similar.
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watergirl
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 4:56 pm
I did this once when I was about 10 or 11 years old and Shabbos with a friend who said they did it all the time. The police came and put a stop to it that real quick.
Aside from trespassing, the construction zone as a hazard. Contrary to what many people think, permits and safety checks exist for a reason aside from making money for the municipality.
Last edited by watergirl on Wed, Jan 03 2024, 5:50 pm; edited 1 time in total
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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 5:05 pm
Amarante wrote: | It would be up to the construction people to limit entry and frankly I am surprised that a GC is letting people on a construction site for liability purposes.
However, the reality is that people essentially do this all the time when the go to Open Houses of homes - especially when they go to their neighbors. |
It's mostly on shabbos that people do it, when no workers are around.
I cannot believe that people are saying that adults do this! That's just unbelievable.
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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 5:06 pm
amother Yolk wrote: | I've done it but I'd never ever publicize it!
I'm talking about new construction with no owner yet, not my neighbors addition |
It has an owner, even if no one bought the house yet. It's not yours to enter. That's just wrong.
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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 5:30 pm
It’s actually in the Boro park view too, I wonder if they did it purposely and if it’s a real letter or just made up. It did get my blood boiling though.
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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 5:31 pm
amother OP wrote: | It has an owner, even if no one bought the house yet. It's not yours to enter. That's just wrong. |
I didn't think there was anything wrong about it
In retrospect it wasn't super safe, but I don't think it was so terrible...
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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 5:36 pm
When we bought our current home 16 years ago, we did a gut renovation inside. One of the neighbors, not even a frum person let me know that she enjoyed walking through the house and seeing the work we were doing. I was shocked and asked her not to do that again.
It is dangerous and I think I would’ve been liable for any injuries.
What a chutzpah
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Rubber Ducky
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 5:36 pm
Another reason homes under construction should be locked up is theft. Yes, people really do steal pipes, fixtures, appliances, and doors/windows.
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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 5:36 pm
amother Yolk wrote: | I didn't think there was anything wrong about it
In retrospect it wasn't super safe, but I don't think it was so terrible... |
If it's not your home or you're not the builder, then it's wrong and terrible to enter.
This shouldn't have to be explained to an adult. I can't believe anyone would think this is an ok thing to do.
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amother
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 5:39 pm
amother Yolk wrote: | I didn't think there was anything wrong about it
In retrospect it wasn't super safe, but I don't think it was so terrible... |
Besides the safety issue, it’s trespassing. You’re going onto someone’s private property and into their house (even if no one lives there yet). Yes, it’s wrong,
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amother
Yolk
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 5:47 pm
I haven't done it in years, and won't do it again...
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amother
Yolk
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Wed, Jan 03 2024, 5:50 pm
amother Whitewash wrote: | Besides the safety issue, it’s trespassing. You’re going onto someone’s private property and into their house (even if no one lives there yet). Yes, it’s wrong, |
Doesn't really feel that way when it's just rows of frames owned by some big developer
Vs neighbor down the block building a custom home
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