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Cressel
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 Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:09 am
Let's write what our un-popular opinions are (because many "unpopular opinions are really just popular opinions that are rarely discussed- and that's just my opinion  )
I'll start
- Not everyone that hurts you is a "narcissist"
- Cheesecake is overrated
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fleetwood
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:14 am
| Cressel wrote: | Let's write what our un-popular opinions are (because many "unpopular opinions are really just popular opinions that are rarely discussed- and that's just my opinion )
I'll start
- Not everyone that hurts you is a "narcissist"
- Cheesecake is overrated |
I despise cheesecake..but love everything else cheese related!
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Cressel
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:16 am
We don't need more "emunah" stories that end with "9 months later they had a baby boy"
"9 months later stories" don't help anybody
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amother
Orchid
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:17 am
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Much of people's anxiety really stems from a lack of bitachon
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ftm1234
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:18 am
| amother Orchid wrote: | | Much of people's anxiety really stems from a lack of bitachon |
At least you said that anonymously 
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amother
Azalea
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:18 am
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My unpopular opinion- anyone who doesn’t like cheesecake (or literally cheese anything) needs a serious taste Bud check or maybe even a brain mri
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amother
Ruby
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:20 am
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Toddlers don’t need ‘trendy’ backpacks
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amother
Cobalt
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:21 am
The belief of some women that the Torah believes women are second class citizens comes from their own insecurities, misconceptions and misinterpretations.
I wouldn't dare say this under my sn, sorry everyone...
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amother
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:22 am
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when all your 8 children match their clothing. You look ridiculous!
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Cressel
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:23 am
| amother Cobalt wrote: | The belief of some women that the Torah believes women are second class citizens comes from their own insecurities, misconceptions and misinterpretations.
I wouldn't dare say this under my sn, sorry everyone... |
I absolutely agree!!!
Say it louder for the people in the back
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amother
Cobalt
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:25 am
| amother Orchid wrote: | | Much of people's anxiety really stems from a lack of bitachon |
As someone who struggles with anxiety, I will agree with you on many levels.
When anxiety is severe it needs to be dealt with but often what helps me when I start getting very anxious about things is remembering that I'm not in control.
The feeling of "I"m not in control. There's nothing I can do to ensure that xyz does or doesn't happen" has been so liberating for me.
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amother
Cobalt
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:26 am
| Cressel wrote: | I absolutely agree!!!
Say it louder for the people in the back |
Good, so I'm not the only one with this sadly unpopular opinion...
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amother
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:26 am
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Birth control isn't as simple as it is made out to be on imamother and if the passion for Torah and Mitzvahs on imamother was a tenth of what it is for BC less people would feel they need it
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amother
Banana
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:27 am
Your in-laws/parents don’t “owe” you support, regardless of how wealthy they are. It’s really nice if they do, but if you’re old enough to get married, you’re old enough to figure out your own finances.
Being supported is a privilege, not a requirement
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happy chick
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:27 am
| amother Cobalt wrote: | The belief of some women that the Torah believes women are second class citizens comes from their own insecurities, misconceptions and misinterpretations.
I wouldn't dare say this under my sn, sorry everyone... |
On the same note, the world is not going down hill because of the lack of women's tznius or the lack of men's beards (I know beards only relate to some. No offense if it doesn't apply to you).
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amother
Azalea
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:28 am
| amother Cobalt wrote: | As someone who struggles with anxiety, I will agree with you on many levels.
When anxiety is severe it needs to be dealt with but often what helps me when I start getting very anxious about things is remembering that I'm not in control.
The feeling of "I"m not in control. There's nothing I can do to ensure that xyz does or doesn't happen" has been so liberating for me. |
I agree with this as well, as someone who was only able to manage with lexapro for 3 years, until I did strong and intensive emunah work. At that point I weaned off of lexapro and easily manage my anxiety (even in high stakes situations) with emunah and bitachon deep internal work
My life is just 10000x better
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amother
Powderblue
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:28 am
And when all your 8 children are color un-coordinated you just look shlumpy
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ftm1234
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:28 am
| amother Banana wrote: | Your in-laws/parents don’t “owe” you support, regardless of how wealthy they are. It’s really nice if they do, but if you’re old enough to get married, you’re old enough to figure out your own finances.
Being supported is a privilege, not a requirement |
Liking this comment wasn't enough. I had to actually tell you that I AGREE
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amother
Ruby
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Sun, Aug 27 2023, 9:29 am
| amother Powderblue wrote: | | And when all your 8 children are color un-coordinated you just look shlumpy |
Do you really believe this? That kids (let’s say wearing clean clothes that fit) look shlumpy when they’re not matching their siblings?
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